Yes, men are also shy about talking about sex. Perhaps even more so than you and I. And if you are not prone to telepathy, these 5 common desires will be useful to remember.
He wants to give you pleasure.
Sexologists assure that for most men, their partner's pleasure is even more important than their own. But there are few who will declare this loudly, openly, and every day. Do you want to make him happy? — Just tell him that you feel good. Or suggest what should be done so that you feel good (or even better). For example, if his two-day stubble irritates you — on your face and not only — let him know. There’s no need to endure what you find unpleasant: believe me, he doesn’t want that either.
He wants you to touch him.
Everywhere. In fact, physical contact is very important to men. And if you are just lying there, arms outstretched, while he is trying his best to make you happy, he may feel a little hurt. By the way, he really wants to touch you (everywhere) too, so if there are "forbidden" zones on your body that cause you negative emotions when touched, warn him about it. And better to do it in advance, not during the process.
He won’t mind if you bite him.
We all have something animalistic in us, so for many couples mutual bites are a part of erotic play. Just don't get carried away: after all, you are not a vicious dog. Do it gently, without leaving a mark of your teeth on his skin. If you’re afraid to take the initiative, let him be the first: just bring your hand to his mouth. Most likely, he will understand the hint. If not — let’s move on: bites are not his thing.
For him, sex is more than just sex.
Seriously: for most adult men, sex is not just a physiological act (unless we are talking about sex in a restaurant bathroom after the fifth bottle of wine — in that case, few will pay attention to the details). It’s also important for your partner to feel an emotional connection during intimacy. If you feel that things are moving too quickly, and you are not ready to transition to a new level, tell him about it: if his desire was not just an impulsive urge, he will give you as much time as you need.
He wants to answer your questions.
It’s not only pleasant for you when your man is interested in what you like. He also enjoys when you ask questions about his preferences. Does he not know what he likes? — Suggest doing research together on his erogenous zones. He will surely approach this idea with great enthusiasm.
