If some women have nothing against swallowing semen, others find it immoral. In most cases, the decisive factor is the attitude towards the partner and the nature of the relationship in the couple. And for everyone else – it’s a matter of taste and the consistency of the sperm.
Debates on this topic have been going on for more than a year and often take on a scale even broader than in Shakespeare's "Hamlet." Still, all women and men are divided into two camps: some believe that there is nothing reprehensible about swallowing semen, while others argue against the unnaturalness of the process. On whose side is the truth? Experts from the center for family and sexual education Secrets tell us why swallowing a partner's sperm after oral sex is normal.
Part one: male opinion
First of all, it should be said that fellatio is a type of foreplay that has a higher degree of intimacy, both physical and even emotional. The male body expends colossal efforts to produce a few grams of semen, and each orgasm requires enormous amounts of energy, and when a woman shows disdain for his semen, the man subconsciously feels that she feels the same way about him. Most men consider swallowing sperm an act of recognition by a woman of his body as a whole, including its smells and tastes. In this way, a man feels unique and irreplaceable to his woman.
Secondly, while some men perceive a woman capable of accepting his seed as special and wonderful, others consider it the work of promiscuous and perverse women. There are also men who are categorically against this intimate procedure because they believe it offends women to some degree. Generally speaking, men are different, and before a woman ponders this truly epochal question, she needs to determine what position her man holds.
Part two: personal preferences
As they say, there is no accounting for taste. But it is worth understanding this: the taste and smell of sperm are not constant and directly depend on what a man eats a couple of hours before intercourse. It should be remembered that various sweet fruits and berries, especially strawberries and pineapples, can improve the taste of sperm. On the other hand, bad habits such as alcohol, cigarettes, and other harmful substances can negatively affect its taste. So, being selective about food and leading a healthy lifestyle is important not only for a beautiful figure and smooth skin but will also be a significant plus for your partner's sex life.
What else should be understood? Sex is meant to bring pleasure to those who engage in it. If for some reason you do not want to swallow sperm—don’t do it, but then try to motivate your decision to your partner so as not to offend him. Men, contrary to popular belief, are very sensitive beings, so make sure your partner understands everything correctly—this is your main task.
Part three: myths that need to be dismissed
Many women seriously believe that male sperm is foreign to the female body and that the immune system begins an active fight every time sperm enters the body. To fully dispel this myth, one only needs to think a little. Every person on earth was created thanks to the penetration of male sperm into the female body, and if the female body really waged a fierce battle against sperm every time it entered in one way or another, would it be possible for so many children to be born as live on our planet right now? No, and once again, no!
This and many other myths about male semen lead the public to view it as something dirty and unnatural. But in reality, there is nothing dirty or shameful about this fluid, and there never has been. Accepting this fact alone can help you completely reevaluate your perspective on oral sex.
