- The starting point in the world of sensual pleasures is parting with virginity. It should be noted that not all girls have a uniform attitude towards the loss of innocence. Some advocate for preserving honor until marriage and promote (read: raise the price of) their virginity in every possible way. Others part with innocence easily and naturally — with the first passerby and as early as possible. Nevertheless, it is impossible to do without this first point, and in order to dive into the sea of carnal delights, you will have to dare to take the first step. If you have problems with this — follow the experience of ancient Egyptian women: for them, the defloration process was considered sacred, and no man was supposed to touch that which belonged to the Almighty. To be initiated as priestesses of love, girls would sit on a golden phallus, losing their virginity in this quite chaste way.
2. Achieve orgasm. It sounds funny — what, is there sex without orgasm? It turns out that 88% of girls under 25 experience problems achieving orgasm. It turns out that most women have their first orgasm by the age of 30. The statistics are depressing. Especially if a girl is prone to suspicion and experiences a real drama over it. However, there is no need to get too upset: sexologists assure that if a girl can bring herself to orgasm through masturbation, she is not frigid. It’s just that she has not yet met a hero capable of revealing the woman in her. I would add: girls, after the first birth, problems with orgasm disappear in the most mysterious way!
3. To claim the title of priestess of love, you must master at least 10 positions. A lot? Men are advised to master only 3. There are reasons for this. A woman derives pleasure not from changing positions, but from the feeling of unity with her beloved, from the opportunity to give herself completely, so to be a wonderful lover, a man does not need to know many positions. Men like to watch; they devour you with their eyes, they like different angles from which to observe you, they feel like sex gurus when they try several positions in one coitus. Therefore, to be considered an amazing lover, change positions more often, offer him new, extraordinary options — he will be pleasantly shocked.
4. Master the basic techniques of massage. Men melt when their trapezius muscles, shoulder girdle, feet, and…. But first take a little massage oil with a drop of patchouli essential oil, ylang-ylang, rose, and relax his tired shoulders. Care and gentle warm hands can melt the heart of any Don Juan. The euphoria he gets from an erotic massage is simply incomparable!
5. Have you ever tried a ribbed condom? At some point, you have to start! Of course, he doesn’t care at all in terms of sensations, but you… The pliable rubber ribbed nature of the condom is capable of bringing many pleasurable moments…
6. Master the art of contracting the vaginal muscles. Every self-respecting lover must devote at least half an hour to this activity every day. Moreover, it can be done everywhere: on the bus, at work, in a café, in the theater — no one sees it! However, when you have sufficiently trained your “little one,” you will not only be able to demonstrate top class but also receive top-level pleasure yourself!
7. Transform the romantic space. Simply put, clean up the bedroom, throw out the collection of stuffed bears, rabbits, and dogs from the bed, eliminate cotton and flannel nightgowns and knit pajamas. Get a red nightlight, long-burning candles, silk sheets, and amazing erotic lingerie. If you can’t part with your plush hippo — hide it UNDER the bed at least for the time your boyfriend is in bed. Men tend to think a woman is a bit off if she sleeps cuddled up to a toy. Psychologists too…
8. Petting, including mutual masturbation. Sex experts claim that there’s nothing better for getting to know each other, mutually enriching sexual experience, and establishing close, trusting relationships. Indeed, only by observing each other can we get a detailed look and enhance our own sexual qualifications because no one, except your partner, can know his erogenous zones better.
9. Oral sex. No man will call you a super-lover if you can’t provide him pleasure orally. There are many guides on this. However, there are several main principles around which variations revolve: ensure moisture; don’t forget about the frenulum — the most sensitive part of the penis; don’t suck (as paradoxical as it may sound); help yourself with your hands; pay attention to the scrotum. That’s the main thing. The rest can be read in the blowjob manual.
10. Quick sex. For some reason, men love this. Their male instincts awaken when he rushes home for a minute in the midst of a workday, throws himself on his still "unwoken" female, possesses her powerfully and roughly, and dissolves into the crazy business of the day. Don’t refuse such sex — it’s your bonus in favor of a future real sex. And then — isn’t it wonderful sometimes to feel weak and pliable?
11. The sex shop is created for visiting, and sex toys are meant to be used. It’s not worth taking all the products from there too seriously, but why not diversify your sex life, your erotic sensations? You will surely enjoy condoms with various flavor additives. And vaginal balls will help keep your intimate muscles in shape. And isn’t it interesting what sensations a vibrator can bring? Good sex should be fun.
12. An erotic photo shoot is another extraordinarily attractive thing. Let your beloved unleash his inner genius photographer. For you, here are a few rules for a successful photo shoot: do not relax — a girl sprawled out on the bed in the photo looks like a flattened pie, so hold your pose; hairstyle, makeup, illumination, lingerie — must be at a high level; skin should shine — use shimmer; a uniform background is preferable — scattered things and a domestic setting greatly spoil the impression.
13. A pillow, bath, table — all can be used for sexual experiments — any item in the house can be tested for its suitability for sex. Let your imagination run wild, and looking at an object that has not yet been in your bed, think: — How can it be used?
14. Porn — you can watch the Hollywood version or shoot your own. Just again — don’t expect to relax too much and enjoy. In the movies — as in the movies: if you want it to be nice to look at later, you need to try to look good.
15. Synchronized orgasm — some consider it the pinnacle of sexual activity. However, there is another opinion because it brings no additional sensations, except for the purely psychological feeling of unity. Moreover, after orgasm, a man wants to “fall away,” while a woman tends to continue the lovemaking since it is at this point that she is at the peak of excitement, and she needs some time for a decline. For these reasons, it is considered technically more correct for the woman to achieve orgasm first. Yet sometimes it’s nice to feel what simultaneous satisfaction is like. Try not to close your eyes at that moment, but mentally “dive” into each other — then you will definitely never forget this.
16. Sado-maso — I am not calling to beat each other with chains, keep in handcuffs or use dog collars. Just let him tie you up and tell him to do whatever he wants with you… Feel like a weak woman in the hands of a strong, handsome male. And next time, repay him with the same coin — let him feel what it’s like to be helpless in the hands of a headstrong woman.
17. Sauna, pool, or at least — a bath. No miracle will happen if you just get into a regular oval-shaped standard bath, even if you generously season the ambiance with scented candles, foam, glasses of champagne, and light music. But sometimes, it's possible to relax. A much better option is a sauna with a pool or a large round bath… And if it has hydromassage!… Quality rest is definitely guaranteed, and as for continuation… at your discretion.
18. A whole day in bed — the ultimate peak of enjoyment. In the life of every hedonist, there should be at least one day lived this way. And there’s no need to quarrel over who will go make the sandwiches. Go together, have a little fun, and at the same time, engage in sex on the kitchen table.
19. Beach, park, staircase, elevator, roof… — …car, bench, airplane toilet, ferris wheel… Well? Have you tried anything from the list as a sexual racetrack, or are you enviously bored of those who colorfully lie about it?
20. His fantasies — a task for liberation. Do you want to get into his head and find out what he secretly dreamed of during the wild pubescent masturbation, or maybe still dreams? Carefully ask him about it, first revealing some of your own sexual fantasies. Just, if you’ve said “a,” you must also say “b”: you asked, and now try to embody it. Just don’t be too scared when you realize that you’ll have to impersonate an English teacher giving a blowjob to her student!
21. Cream, condensed milk, honey — delicacies for gourmets — lick it all off your beloved's body. You can also decorate your cream-covered love with strawberries, banana pieces, pineapple slices… Although why am I talking all about sweets? Not everyone is such a sweet tooth! I think beer lovers would enjoy pieces of smoked herring on the body of their beloved girl and a sip of beer in her navel. In short, choose a delicacy at your discretion, but you must master the gourmet of love!
22. Anus — his anus, according to some well-educated sexologists — is one of the sweetest spots on his body. And all because of the prostate located in it. Don’t be scared, of course, but at some point, it’s necessary to try — to insert a finger into his anus. You might have to persuade him for a long time, but then you won’t be able to pull him away from the pleasure by the ears. I warn you right away — not everyone will agree. Those who suspect they have homosexual tendencies will never agree.
23. Secret petting — can brighten the time spent on long bus, plane, and train trips, and also allows you to charge with adrenaline when night catches you visiting, and you have to stay overnight… Here you are sleeping on the floor in a row: your beloved, you, a girlfriend, her boyfriend, his friend, a friend of a friend. Everyone has long fallen asleep, and you… Well, in general, you can't sleep, you try not to make noise and don’t even notice that four other people nearby are also trying very hard to rustle.
24. Seducing a virgin — the task of every experienced lover. Moreover, it is also a valuable sexual experience since only with an inexperienced partner can you not only check your skill level but also serve as a sex teacher. You will never understand the depth and charm of sex until you play the role of a guru because teaching sex is the next step in perfecting your art.
25. Sex marathon — who can go longer. A tough thing, not every man will agree. A strong type is needed — very hairy, preferably dark-skinned, without higher education (fewer cockroaches in the head). Of course, if you feel that he is too weak, it is not worth suggesting. Choose a truly worthy opponent. I know men capable of enduring up to 10 hours of practically nonstop sex marathon.
