Women have many complaints about men. And rarely does anyone of us resist the temptation to unleash the entire flow of our dissatisfaction on the poor male head. When it comes to concealment, we cannot be reproached. You readily inform your man that he has scattered socks all over the room, poured the contents of the teapot next to the bucket, and who knows where he has hidden the TV remote. And only in one thing do we keep impenetrable silence. When it comes to the intimate sphere, you can't pull a word out of us. And indeed, unlike socks and trash, men are quite willing to listen to this information and almost always meet our wishes.
- Not a gasp nor a sigh
Every time you try to take the "steering wheel" in your hands and occupy a dominant position on top, your man takes the initiative, pushes you onto your back, and everything follows his program from then on.
What does it mean? It means that in front of you is a person with a leader complex. He is afraid to lose control and let the situation slip away. Having gotten used to managing everything and everyone, he willingly or unwillingly transfers these relationships to the bedroom.
What should you do. Try to explain to him that in this way he does not give you a chance to prove your love to him. And if besides the bed, other spheres of your life begin to come under control — run away while you still can.
2. And around silence
In the heat of romantic passion, you want to hear words of love and admiration. But instead, your ears are gratified by strained gasping and non-romantic snoring.
What does it mean? Yes, men are just designed in such a way that at the moment of "crossing arms, crossing legs, the crossing of souls," they can only puff and snort. They focus so much on the process itself that they are simply unable to engage in social conversations. And an attempt to show gallantry, unfortunately, can cost them their sexual arousal.
What should you do. Allow your partner to be silent at this crucial moment. But if he still cannot produce a couple of sweet words after "the process" — it’s worth considering.
3. Conditional reflex
As soon as you decide to do housework and grab the broom, He immediately grabs you, and everything happens right on the dirty floor next to the broom. The initial sharpness of sensations gradually gives way to slight irritation (the floor remains un-swept all the time) and a certain fear of picking up household items.
What does it mean? Spontaneity can easily become a regularity. A couple of repetitions is enough. The first time sex in the elevator can give a lot of new sensations. But the second time, due to the fear that you might be "caught," one can easily have a nervous breakdown.
What should you do. Try to hint to your partner that it’s time to come up with something new, or else everything is somehow "in airplanes and in airplanes." It’s best to alternate regular "bed" sex with new ideas.
4. Guess with three attempts
You are trying in every way to hint to him that you have long dreamed of having sex on the kitchen table, but He persistently pulls you into the bathroom, even though it’s wet, slippery, and generally unpleasant.
What does it mean? It means that your hints do not reach him. Men have difficulty deciphering our "messages," and this has to be taken into account. To your significant: "I'm a bit cold," he may very seriously offer you his sweater.
What should you do. Speak directly. Don’t disorient your partner with convoluted phrases and veiled wishes. You will save a bunch of nerves for both yourself and him if you express yourself as clearly as possible. However, it’s also important not to overdo it. Don’t switch to a commanding tone. Phrases: "Do this!", "Don't do that!", "Faster!", "Quieter!" — are inappropriate in the bedroom.
5. The past and thoughts...
Three years ago he wanted you all the time and everywhere. And now only occasionally, and that in a rather weak and boring manner. You enticingly display your leg from under the blanket, while He, lazily kissing you on the cheek, turns to the wall and falls asleep like a baby a minute later.
What does it mean? Time is not the best friend of sex. Over the years, the sharpness of sensations is lost. And instead of "African passions," everything seems to pull to just lie on the couch, watch TV, or read a detective novel.
What should you do. Try to make changes to the usual routine. Meet your husband in the evening after work not in a housecoat with a plate of cutlets, but in a seductive bodysuit, stockings, and of course, on high heels. Light candles, pour champagne, play soft music. I think a passionate night will be guaranteed for you.
6. Early torments You belong to those people for whom "morning is never good." And just at that moment, when you struggle to open your eyes and stretch the moment of parting with the warm blanket, He pounces on you with the fury of a wild tiger and the frenzy of a primitive man.
What does it mean? More than half of men feel a surge of energy and desire in the morning. And few women can boast the same. First, because they really want to sleep. Second, in the mornings we are usually not at the ready. And third, we need to have breakfast, make the bed, and do our makeup, and all these procedures take a lot of time.
What should you do. You shouldn’t categorically refuse your beloved morning pleasures. Suggest alternating nighttime sex with morning or moving "this matter" to the morning of a day off.
7. Clean Thursday
Every time passion suddenly overtakes you, you rush into the shower with a powerful jerk to tidy up all the necessary places. But He does not share this desire for cleanliness at all, and your "hygienic" impulses greatly irritate him.
What does it mean? Maybe you are not very confident in yourself, and you think that without brushing your teeth and washing other body parts, you will repel your partner with unpleasant odors.
What should you do. No matter how you turn it, your partner has a reason to be dissatisfied. With your "demarche," you deprive him of the pleasure of enjoying sudden, unplanned sex. What kind of suddenness is that when you have to wait for your partner to take a shower, apply lotions, do her hair, etc. Furthermore, surveys show that for 99% of men (heterosexuals), the "smell of a woman" is not unpleasant. Far fewer of them are satisfied when it smells of strawberries, vanilla, and other perfumes "down there." Cleanliness is certainly the key to health, but sometimes you can forget about hygiene and fully give in to feelings and emotions. If you have something to say — say it. Not to your mother, not to your friend, not to your neighbor, but to that very person with whom you go to bed every day and plan to do so at least for the next few years.
