Fingering is a great alternative to traditional sex. It can come in handy when you've "already had enough" and she hasn't yet. It can be done discreetly in any place, whether in a subway car or a movie theater. It can give a girl fantastic sensations that she can't get from vaginal sex or cunnilingus. Bringing a girl to orgasm with fingers is much easier than even with the tongue, let alone classical penetration. Those who have learned this forget about problems with erection and the absence of female orgasm. And to those who are not yet in the know, we advise to read this article very carefully. However, there will be plenty of interesting tips for couples who practice fingering here.
We offer readers a set of techniques that will help diversify "manual labor" and refresh sexual life.
Part the Hood
The head of a woman's clitoris, which is not yet aroused, is covered by a fold of skin known as the hood. When the level of arousal reaches a certain threshold, the hood parts and the clitoral pearl peeks out.
Physiologically, the hood is a continuation of the labia minora. It is quite sensitive on its own and can be stroked at the very beginning of foreplay. To do this, you need to run your fingers along the petals from bottom to top, reach the fold where they meet, and start gently stroking it. After a while, you can push it up with your thumb towards the pubis and move on to clitoral stimulation.
Try to Find the G Spot
Debates about the existence of this spot do not subside: many believe it is no more than a myth. In reality, the G spot does exist. But, firstly, it can only be located in a well-aroused woman, and secondly, it may be located slightly off where it is usually searched for.
How do the searches usually go? The man inserts his index finger into the woman's vagina and, slightly bending it, makes a motion that could be called "come here." Often, this causes some discomfort for the woman, and she asks to stop searching.
If this is how it happens for you, try acting differently: insert not one, but two or three fingers inside and massage not just one spot, but as wide an area as possible on the front wall. For an aroused girl, the G spot becomes firmer and slightly rises above the surface. Without adequate arousal, finding the G spot is unrealistic.
Place Your Palm on the Vagina
A very simple technique that is best used in the early stages of foreplay. Just place your palm on the labia majora and apply slight pressure. This will increase blood flow in the area and speed up arousal. With your other hand, you can stroke other parts of the woman's body at the same time.
Play with the Mons
The mons pubis, being a collection of fatty tissue, may not seem like a particularly sensitive area. But playing with it indirectly and unobtrusively stimulates the clitoris. It is recommended to stroke the mons towards the clitoris, applying slight pressure with the bottom of your palm.
Massage the Labia
The labia majora can receive much more attention than they usually do. Yes, these areas are not particularly sensitive, but stimulation of them at the beginning of foreplay will have a very positive effect on the process.
Gently massage her lips with soft movements, pinching them between your thumb and index finger, carefully pulling them upwards. If the girl doesn't shave, you can slightly tug the lips by the hair.
Such touches, like in previous cases, do not stimulate the clitoris directly, but still, they slightly touch it and provide very pleasant sensations.
Move in Circles
No matter how much you (and she) want to finally get to the clitoris, there's no need to rush. It would be good to tease her a bit. Applying a bit of lubricant on your finger, start making circular movements around the head of the clitoris, trying not to change the pressure. This is how many women excite themselves.
Touch the Cervix
Let's say this right away: not everyone enjoys these touches. But if your girl likes it when things go deeper, she will definitely like this. Just insert your fingers all the way into the vagina and make gentle movements around the cervix. If you can't reach, ask the woman to bend her legs – this will shorten the vagina.
In this area, you need to be very careful and only increase pressure if you are sure that your girlfriend likes it.
Needless to say, your hands should be perfectly clean and your nails should be trimmed short?
Change Positions
You can diversify fingering not only by changing techniques but also simply by changing positions. Do everything as she likes, but only in a different position. This simple technique will make everything feel new. If you are used to doing it lying on your back, place her on her side or on all fours. Perhaps in a new position, old touches will seem more pleasant and exciting to her.
And by the way, if the first change of positions didn't appeal to her too much, it doesn't mean that others will not be just as enjoyable. Don't be afraid to experiment, as you can always return to tried and tested techniques at any moment.
Pay Attention to the Entrance to the Vagina
Sexologists assure that most of the nerve endings in the vagina are located in the lower third of the vaginal canal, right at the entrance. Therefore, you can only insert the first phalanges of your fingers and stroke the entrance with smooth circular movements. You can also, ensuring beforehand that she is adequately lubricated, slightly stretch the vagina with your fingers.
Play the Piano
Place your index and middle fingers right and left of her clitoris and press them as if you're playing the piano. You can also move your fingers back and forth and side to side. Rhythmic movements are very enjoyable for women and quickly lead to arousal. "Playing the piano" will awaken desire and anticipation in her.
A bit later, you can place one of your fingers directly on the clitoris and "play" on it directly.
“Rider” on Your Hand
Do you know how dads and grandpas ride little kiddos by sitting them on their leg? We suggest doing something similar with your partner.
Sit her on your hand in such a way that your fingers touch the lower part of her buttocks, ensuring that her entire perineum is on your palm. Let her start rubbing against your hand, finding the right rhythm, and when she manages, start moving your palm in sync with her movements. This technique will allow you to stimulate a larger area while the pressure will not be excessive, which is excellent for particularly sensitive women.
Work with Two Hands
With one hand (using your index and thumb), part her lips, and with the other hand, start stimulating the clitoris. By separating the labia, you will provide better access to the hottest point. Furthermore, the woman will feel completely defenseless before you, which will arouse her even more.
Caress Her Through the Panties
This technique is suitable for ladies with a very sensitive clitoris as well as for all other women. Touching through the thin fabric of underwear is very pleasant and feels quite different.
It is highly desirable that the panties are not cotton but thin silk: on smooth fabric, the finger slides more smoothly and gently.
And when you want to stimulate the clitoris directly, you can slide the panties aside without removing them. This is very arousing.
Let Her Take Control
To understand exactly how and what she likes, observe how she masturbates. But it is quite possible that she might be shy to do it in front of you. In that case, ask her to show the right actions by placing her hand on yours. You can passionately whisper something like "Show me how you want" and let her guide your movements, trying to remember them.
Comprehensive Caresses
Most often, the clitoris is stimulated with movements either from side to side or from top to bottom. Both are very pleasurable for women and can well lead them to orgasm. But this technique can be improved since such influences engage only part of the clitoral nerve endings. Sexologists advise to slightly pinch the clitoris with three fingers and rub it a bit, as if rolling a ball of gum. This way, the stimulation will be all-encompassing and multifaceted. The main thing is to be very careful and not forget about lubrication.
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