Sex

5 important facts that can fundamentally change your relationships.

5 important facts that can fundamentally change your relationships.

The further narration is constructed in a slightly ironic manner. It seems to me that this is the best way to talk about spicy topics. ;)

How much time a man should spend on household chores

About half of the readers of Loverssex are women. It is for them that I will commit a crime against myself and tell about very interesting statistics that will overturn established ideas about cleaning, cooking, and household life in general. I hope the men will forgive me, and my wife simply won't see these lines. :)

Employees of the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) studied gender differences among different nations and, in passing, calculated how much unpaid household work men do in various countries of the world. The most manual responsible were the Slovenians. They work for the benefit of the family almost two hours daily. The Indians, on the contrary, do not burden themselves much: for 19 minutes, their hands don’t even get dirty.

Dear ladies, draw conclusions, stage revolutions, and demand domestic justice.

How sleep affects sexual desire in women

“Did you sleep well today? And how many hours did you lie in bed?” — these seemingly absolutely innocent questions from a well-informed man can hint at an evening sex. What nonsense? Researchers at the University of Michigan found out that each additional hour of sleep increases the likelihood of female sexual activity the next day by 14%. The scientists analyzed sleep and sexual life diaries from 171 female students. The average duration of sleep was 7 hours and 22 minutes. Girls whose rest exceeded the average duration experienced greater sexual desire and had sex more often made love.

The findings are echoed by other studies, which say that lack of sleep and poor sleep quality lead to problems in the bedroom.

Therefore, guys, plan your evening hunt for sophomores on a well-rested Saturday. And leave the tired Friday for a good movie, some beer, and a tasty snack with it.

How to make a married woman happy

Women’s eyes can shine for various reasons: at the sight of a kitten, washed dishes, a pink iPhone. Particularly noteworthy is the light of satisfaction with one’s sex life. But what is the minimum that one should regularly strive for? Answers to this question are provided by M. Gary Neuman — a well-known American consultant on family relationships, author of several popular books, and a master in the field of mental health. According to the specialist, 11 times a month is the coveted benchmark.

The scientist studied the sexual habits of 400 women in terms of whether they considered their married life happy. It turned out that in an unhappy marriage (sorry for the tautology) sexual contacts occurred only 3-4 times a month, while you have already read about successful marriages. Where the consequence is and where the cause is hard to say, but the numbers are interesting.

Husbands, every three days raise the flag and storm your wife for her own well-being.

How to strengthen bonds within a couple

It is no secret that good borscht and field flowers strengthen relationships. However, it may happen that some cook will make soup better than you or a businessman will appear on the horizon with roses instead of daisies. How to keep your other half? Science and its discoveries in the field of hormonal processes in the body will come to the rescue, namely — the psychotropic effect of oxytocin.

German researchers conducted a notable experiment highlighting the binding power of oxytocin within an already established couple. They divided a group of unattached men into two parts, one of which was given oxytocin and the other — a placebo. After that, each participant was approached slowly by a seductive woman. The subjects stopped her approach at a distance comfortable for them. As it turned out, men under the influence of the hormone preferred to stay 10-15 centimeters farther away. All because she is a stranger. The conclusions come by themselves: the biologically active substance enhances responsibility towards loved ones, and trusting relationships and moral principles strengthen.

Paul Zak, one of the most famous researchers of oxytocin, shares a simple and effective method for increasing hormone release in his talk at the TED conference: just hug. Moreover, he gives a specific number — eight times a day.

Therefore, ladies and gentlemen, complement welcoming pats on the buttocks and beard tugging with the most banal of hugs.

Is there any benefit from sexting

Russia is among the top twenty most active consumers of content from the world-famous porn bank PornHub. Of course, these are all theoretical teenagers. They watch filth and then engage in sexting — sending each other various obscenities through social networks and messengers. Ugh, to be like that!

Don't be quick to condemn the youth; not everything is so unambiguous. For instance, American researchers from Drexel University surveyed 870 adults and found out that intimate messaging had its advantages: some individuals who regularly sent and received "adult" messages or pictures reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction. However, the researchers caution that imposing sexting on a couple against the “I don’t want to” of one partner produces the opposite effect: relationships deteriorate.

It is important to remember that love can be fleeting. So, engage in sexting using services with automatic and irreversible history deletion.