Pros
1. It's convenient
You can call such a friend and arrange to meet at any convenient time. Moreover, you know each other and feel comfortable together.
2. You can experiment
In such relationships, you can realize your sexual fantasies, and no one will judge you.
3. You don't need to impress anyone
Since this is not about serious relationships, you don't have to go out of your way to impress your partner. It is not necessary to show only your best side: you are friends and know enough about each other to be yourselves.
4. You are free from obligations
You both can do whatever you want and meet other people. You are completely independent and do not demand anything from each other.
Cons
1. There are no rules
In such relationships, clear boundaries of what is allowed are usually not established. Because of this, both partners are unclear about what can be done, what cannot be done, and when such relationships should be terminated.
It's better to agree on everything in advance to avoid unpleasant surprises.
2. The relationship is devalued
You do not require anything from your partner, and they do not require anything from you, and that is good. But such a lack of responsibility in the relationship can lead to you beginning to neglect each other and over time stop valuing each other and your relationship. This can negatively affect the self-esteem of both partners.
You should not take a friend and your relationship for granted. Don't forget to take care of your partner, even if you have no obligations.
3. There is a risk of falling in love
Over time, one partner may fall in love with the other, and there’s no guarantee that these feelings will be mutual. In the end, one of you will have a broken heart, and the friendship will end.
Agree that if the situation arises, you will immediately inform each other of your feelings and decide how to proceed in order to avoid suffering and maintain your friendship.
If you are prone to falling in love and easily attach to other people, friends with benefits is likely not for you.
