1. Care and Equal Efforts
A woman is not your hand or a masturbator. You cannot use her body to satisfy your needs and then turn over, assuming that she had a great time as well.
Being a good lover means fully investing in the process.
2. Orgasm
This point is directly related to the previous one. Sex should not be limited to the male orgasm. If you are unable to do anything afterward, take care of her pleasure before your finish. After all, if you know for sure that you will get yours, wouldn't you want your partner to also have a good time?
3. Contraception
It should be understood that, unless otherwise stated, sex implies the use of a condom. Don't act surprised when it comes up, and do not try to get rid of it during the process. On such moments, a session of love simply ends.
4. Communication
Sometimes silent sex works. But most often, it is the words, not their absence, that provide pleasure to a woman. This, in particular, applies to situations when a partner asks what she wants.
5. Clean Bed
It is actually very difficult to relax and enjoy when you are surrounded by clumps of wool, dirt, and the smell of unwashed linen.
6. Foreplay
Sex is not a sprint. Honestly, you can take the time to explore each other and enjoy yourselves.
Moreover, if orgasm were the only meaning of sex, people would have long been doing it only with special toys.
7. Absence of Socks
Please take off your socks before getting into bed. The sight of a naked person in socks simply distracts from the process. Additionally, it generates a lot of questions in a woman's mind. Should I not take off my socks? Doesn’t he like feet? Oh, my feet must be awful?
Anxiety is not the best companion for sex, so just leave your socks out of the equation.
8. Realistic Expectations
How many times has it been said that sex in real life and sex in porn are two different realities. Yet, there are still guys who try to replicate what they see on the screen with an ordinary girl (for example, engaging in spontaneous anal sex). Don’t do that.
9. Enthusiastic Cunnilingus
Of course. A detailed guide here.
Also read:
- Double pleasure: 20 best sex positions for both partners →
- 9 effective ways to enhance orgasm →
- Woman on top: 7 best positions for sex →
- 6 most underrated erogenous zones →
