1. Missionary Position
What's Wrong
Here everything is obvious: this position simply does not imply clitoral stimulation, which for most women means the absence of pleasure.
How to Fix It
The solution is to use the technique of coital alignment. This position is very similar to the missionary position, but takes the partner's needs more into account. More about the technique Loverssex discussed in the article about the best positions for female orgasm.
2. Doggy Style
What's Wrong
While you are enjoying deep penetration, the partner may be writhing in pain, as the penis (especially a large one) hits the cervix strongly in this position.
Moreover, this position definitely cannot be called close and intimate. For some girls, this is a clear downside.
How to Fix It
To avoid causing your partner pain, try to make slow and not too deep thrusts. And to make the position more intimate, kiss the lady, stroke her hair and back.
Another solution is to change the position a bit and simply lie on top: this way your bodies will be closer together, and the pace and depth of penetration will automatically be less.
And of course, don't forget to caress the clitoris. In this position, it is quite convenient to do so.
3. Cowgirl
What's Wrong
The reason is insecurity. Women often think about their bodies during sex, and in this position, it causes them the most concern: while the partner imagines how her breasts and stomach are shaking, her desire rapidly decreases.
How to Fix It
The first thing a man should do is to let the partner know that he is crazy about her body. Don't skimp on compliments before, during, and after the process. Of course, issues with low self-esteem cannot be solved with a couple of sweet words, but over time one can expect an effect.
Another extravagant way is to suggest having sex with your eyes blindfolded. This might free a girl a bit.
If nothing helps, it’s better to simply suggest another position.
4. Reverse Cowgirl
What's Wrong
The angle of penetration in this position is unusual, so many women may find it uncomfortable. Moreover, clitoral stimulation is again impossible here.
How to Fix It
Paradoxically, but possibly, the best alternative might be doggy style (with the suggested improvements above). The essence is largely the same, but there are more opportunities for female pleasure.
5. Reverse Cowgirl on Back
What's Wrong
To the drawbacks of the previous position, it also adds that the partner must exert quite a bit of physical effort. Not everyone can handle this.
How to Fix It
If you want to take a more relaxed position and not exhaust the girl, a good alternative is the spooning position, on the side. Perfect for resting and continuing with renewed strength.
6. Position 69
What's Wrong
Many women simply find it difficult to relax and enjoy during mutual oral pleasures.
How to Fix It
Elementary: pleasure each other not simultaneously, but in turn. If after orgasm you are no longer capable of active actions, it makes sense to let the lady go first.
