Once, I conducted a survey among the female shoppers in my store about their sex lives. I wanted to understand the pains of the modern woman and what is especially relevant for her in bed. And you know what? 90% of the girls admitted that they do not achieve (or achieve, but very rarely) orgasm from vaginal sex with a partner. Many were truly worried about this: they considered themselves wrong and didn’t even suspect that there are many like them!
It’s all about the cultural context: we are still convinced that women should experience pleasure just like men, although, strictly speaking, the main source of pleasure in a woman’s body is the clitoris. Uncle Freud had a significant influence on this harmful notion, believing that vaginal orgasm is adult and correct, whereas clitoral is somehow transitional, inferior.
I declare responsibly: like many other things, Freud was wrong! “All orgasms are mature and good,” any adequate modern sexologist will tell you. Women masturbate in different ways: using thigh squeezing, streams of a shower, rubbing against objects, fingers, and vibrators — and most of them concentrate specifically on the clitoris during this process.
I will tell you what to choose if you decide to get pleasure with a sex toy. All the devices I write about are clitoral. Many of them can be used not only for masturbation but also during sex with a partner.
1. Magic Wand Original
Let’s start with the classics. “That massager from porn” — one of the most sold and frequently counterfeited vibrators around the world. The Magic Wand was indeed released as a body massager in the late 60s and, thanks to the sex educator Betty Dodson, transformed A Brief History of the Magic Wand into a “magic wand” for masturbation. It remains popular to this day, despite the appearance of much more modern and miniature models on the market (the original weighs, by the way, more than half a kilogram!).
The principle of its operation is very simple: in the handle of the toy is a large and powerful motor that transmits vibrations to the head of the product. The head is applied to the clitoris (or another part of the body that you want to massage), and the vibrations literally bring deep orgasm in just a couple of minutes.
The secret of the toy's success lies in its enormous power and fame. Today we would say that the Magic Wand has gone viral, and not once. The device sold so well that in 2012, Hitachi seriously considered stopping production, fearing that the name of the technology giant would be associated with sex toys! In the end, it all ended with the renaming of the massager: now it can be found under the brand Magic Wand Original.
Most domestic sex shops sell less powerful copies at a price 2-3 times lower than the original. The motor is not in the handle but in the head of the product. Replicas are not always bad: there are many girls who do not need such a powerful clitoral stimulation. Moreover, I always recommend looking at other toys with the same head: many brands produce convenient, compact, and ergonomic models.
2. Womanizer Premium
If just 10 years ago Hitachi was the main hero of the women's nightstand, now its place has been taken by the vacuum clitoral stimulator. This technology appeared just a couple of years ago and created a real sensation in the market for sex toys for women. Despite the scary name, it is completely non-traumatic. You apply the attachment to the clitoris, turn on the toy, and in the vacuum created, streams of air move, caressing and almost sucking it.
The effect of the Womanizer Premium is so delicate that you won’t feel anything when applying the switched-on device to your finger. But on the tender and sensitive clitoris, vacuum stimulation manifests itself quite differently. The overwhelming majority of women achieve fast, bright, and sometimes multiple orgasms from these toys.
The Womanizer brand is a pioneer of the technology and still remains the gold standard for toys of this type. These are premium segment devices, distinguished by gentle and deep effects, high quality of execution, and thoughtful design. I sometimes call the Womanizer Premium the iPhone X in the world of vibrators. It brings one to orgasm literally in one or two minutes, and also has an interesting “Autopilot” function: the toy changes the scenario and intensity of vibrations at its discretion, making the sensations more vivid and unexpected.
3. Satisfyer Pro Penguin
If you want to try vacuum stimulation but are not ready to spend a lot of money on Womanizer, I recommend considering the budget brand Satisfyer. Its devices are not as high quality and gentle in effect, but they are much cheaper and have many modes of operation.
The Satisfyer Pro Penguin is the best-selling toy in my shop. By recommending it, I am 99% confident in the result and the enthusiastic “ohs” from clients. The vibrator is compact, waterproof, has 11 stimulation options, and looks extremely cute. It inspires delight until that very minute when it starts working… After that, it inspires orgasm.
4. We-vibe Tango
A bullet vibrator is a pocket clitoral vibrator that resembles a bullet in shape. These toys are so miniature that they can fit into a woman's makeup bag, so they are often considered a travel format and taken on vacation. Once, at Berlin airport, I saw that bullet vibrators were sold right in a vending machine in the women's restroom, alongside hygiene products.
The We-vibe Tango is the benchmark for toys of this type. Thanks to its powerful motor and material that conducts vibrations well, it is the most powerful bullet vibrator on the market today. It is perfect for pinpoint external stimulation — can be used both for masturbation and during sexual intercourse with a partner.
5. Svakom Nymph
I call it the ideal vibrator for foreplay. The toy has two sides and two options for use. The moving tentacles provide gentle stimulation. This isn’t about quick orgasm, but about sensual play and slow pleasure. It’s not necessary to start with the clitoris: the Svakom Nymph works for any erogenous zones and may even help discover new ones.
If you need more persistent pinpoint stimulation — use the wand of the toy (remember, I mentioned the miniature counterparts of the Magic Wand). The multifunctional device looks very cute, and girls often choose it as their first toy.
6. Magic Motion Eidolon
A remote-controlled vibrator is one of the most frequent requests in a modern sex shop. In 2019, you can easily hand over control of your orgasm to a device. Here’s how it works: your vibrator connects to your smartphone via Bluetooth, and your partner connects to it through an app. Moreover, it doesn’t matter whether you are in different corners of the Earth or teasing each other while sitting at the same table in a restaurant.
Unfortunately, the most popular toys of this type — vibrating eggs — do not pay enough attention to the clitoris. And as you already know, most women need just that for orgasm. An interesting solution is the Magic Motion Eidolon. Powerful clitoral stimulation is combined with good vibration from the vaginal appendage. The vibrator is small and very ergonomic — it can be easily taken for a walk without fear of losing the toy somewhere along the way.
Unlike most brands that produce high-tech devices, Magic Motion makes its toys affordable.
7. Gvibe Gring
I don’t know what type of ring modern girls dream of wearing, but I would suggest they pay attention to the Gvibe Ring. This powerful, functional, and very compact sex toy is suitable for use alone or with a partner: just slip the ring on your finger, and you can stimulate the clitoris, penis, nipples, and any other sensitive areas of your bodies.
The mini-vibrator is very convenient: you can make the same movements as with regular finger stimulation, but the effect will be completely different due to the motor.
Another major plus for the toy is its price. If you have a budget of about 3,000 rubles, this is one of the coolest options to treat yourself.
