Of course, to master the art of oral sex well, practice is needed. But everything would be much easier if girls honestly said what they like and what they don’t. This would help avoid many unpleasant moments and lead to mutual pleasure faster.
So, take note.
- “I don’t like it when a guy thinks that oral sex is the only way to bring me to orgasm and focuses too much on stimulation. I recommend discussing in advance what excites you the most with your partner and trying to reach climax in different ways.”
- “It’s terrible when he licks everything but the clitoris for 20 minutes. And you’re so skillfully pretending that you deserve an ‘Oscar’.”
- “Many think that speed is important in oral sex. In fact, it’s much more important for the partner to pay attention to how I react to stimulation during intense caresses. He must ‘hit’ the right spot. If the tongue is relaxed, nothing will work.”
- “I hate it when the partner stimulates the clitoris with the tip of his tongue, but does it too weakly. Such actions make me squirm — and not from pleasure, but to intensify the stimulation.”
5. “You don’t need to rub the clitoris as if you are a famous DJ at a rave.”
- “Some think it’s a good idea to blow into the vagina. Why? Almost all the guys I’ve been with did this.”
- “Sometimes they get too carried away and start poking very hard with their fingers in the vagina. Stop injuring my cervix, and then I might get pleasure.”
- “I hate it when they stimulate the wrong place with their tongue. You try to dodge to direct the partner where it needs to be. But he moves along with you. Or bites. Why do that, dude?”
- “It annoys me when I’m already close to orgasm, and he switches to a different spot.”
- “It’s unpleasant when the partner sucks so hard that it seems like he’s going to tear something off.”
- “I don’t like it when guys think that ‘the alphabet’ (when they draw A, B, C with their tongue) is cool. No, it’s just random movements.”
- “It’s terrible when they literally go crazy on the clitoris. Chill out, dude, my legs are cramping with a cramp, and it’s already unpleasant!”
13. “It’s unpleasant when a guy literally rubs his face against my genitals and he has stubble. It feels like a cheese grater.”
- “Sometimes you’re already almost at climax, and he changes the rhythm.”
- “Once, my friends and I discussed how awkward it is when men make comments about our genitals. But it’s a part of the body that doesn’t need evaluation. For example, the partner says something like ‘Oh, hair’ or comments on size or shape. It’s strange and indelicate. In my opinion, a man should just focus on making the woman feel comfortable and appreciate her charms as they are.”
- “I hate it when they hurry. You don’t need to get straight to the point. It’s better to slow down and first kiss the inner thighs and belly.”
- “You don’t need to make inappropriate sounds with your mouth when you’re having oral sex!”
- “I don’t want to be constantly asked if everything is okay. Shut up and do what you’re doing. Just listen to whether I like it or not!”
- “It’s terrible when they spit or make unpleasant slurping sounds. I can’t stand it when the partner drools.”
- “It’s unpleasant when he lifts your butt and you end up in a crab position. This is not gymnastics!”
21. “It drives me crazy when you’re halfway to orgasm, and he suddenly decides to kiss you on the lips.”
- “It’s bad when the partner immediately starts oral sex instead of going down slowly and gently. It seems he’s in a hurry. I can’t concentrate on enjoying it.”
- “I don’t like it when he completely envelops the genitals with his mouth without focusing on a specific part.”
- “It’s nightmare when the partner puts me on all fours during oral sex. All I want at that moment is to relax and enjoy. But instead, I try not to fall on his face.”
- “I really dislike it when he bites me with his teeth. Sometimes it feels nice. But in any case, I always fear he might accidentally bite too hard.”
- “It’s terrible when he performs cunnilingus for just a couple of seconds and then expects me to be ready for everything. What’s the point?”
What conclusions can be drawn
- If you want to give a girl pleasure, think about what actions would you like? Surely, you wouldn’t want your partner to rush.
- The more relaxed a woman feels, the faster the orgasm will come.
- Make sure you stimulate the most sensitive spots, but don’t get stuck on one thing. Otherwise, it will bring not pleasure but pain (this usually happens with the clitoris).
- Yes, girls appreciate it when they are asked what they like. But avoid finding out every 20 seconds if everything is okay with your partner.
- And if the girl is desperately trying to shift you to another spot, you’re probably doing something wrong.
- Remember that stimulating the genitals should be done very delicately. Don’t perform rough manipulations with fingers, teeth, or tongue unless you are asked to do so.
