Purple or skin-colored? Smooth or with bumps? Elastic or unbending? The search for a sex toy that won't let you down at a crucial moment requires careful consideration.
How to choose the size of the dildo
The size of a standard dildo is about 18 cm (7 inches) long and 4 cm (1.5 inches) in diameter. However, physiological characteristics, preferences, and needs vary, so sex shops can offer toys ranging from 10 to 40 cm in length and over 7 centimeters in diameter.
Beginners are better off starting with a modest 14 cm (5.5 inches) in length and 2.5 cm (1 inch) in diameter, which corresponds to the average What size is the average penis? size of the male organ when erect. With skilled use, this is quite sufficient to satisfy most women without causing pain and discomfort.
What material to prefer
Most often, dildos are made from gel, cyber skin, silicone, PVC, plastic, or glass. Each material has its pros and cons, and they are suitable for different purposes. Therefore, the better you understand your needs, the easier it is to make a choice.
Gel
Gel dildos have many positive qualities. They are elastic, bright, and beautiful, making a striking appearance in the interior. The smooth surface ensures excellent glide. And good thermal conductivity means that the phallus substitute heats up quickly to a pleasant body temperature.
One of the main advantages of gel dildos is their comparatively low price. This is a good option for those who have never used a dildo before and can't decide on the optimal size.
Among the downsides, one should note the short lifespan, chemical taste, and sharp rubber smell that initially emanates from the source of pleasure. But the main drawback of gel lies in its micropores, where bacteria can multiply. To protect yourself from infections, it is advisable to put a condom on the dildo, even if you are the only lucky user. It's best to wash gel dildos with dish soap or a special solution for disinfecting sex toys.
Another nuance: such a phallus may feel insufficiently firm. In short, after experimenting and gaining some experience, move on to more expensive and higher-quality substitutes for the penis.
What to buy
- Dildo with thickening Eroticon, 630 rubles →
- Gel dildo with suction cup, 1,051 rubles →
- Purple dildo from Topco Sales, 2,345 rubles →
Cyber skin
Cyber skin dildos look and feel almost like real ones. Moreover, the more expensive the toy, the more realistic the sensations.
The high price is probably the main disadvantage of such a dildo. Like any premium item, this dildo requires special attention and care. It should be rinsed immediately after use, then gently but thoroughly dried with a soft cloth, and after drying, dusted with talcum powder or corn starch.
The precious penis should be stored in a fabric pouch to prevent dust from penetrating the micropores of the cyber skin. And only water-based lubricant should be used.
What to buy
- Realistic flesh-colored dildo with suction cup, 1,620 rubles →
- Dildo from Juicy Toyz , 2,800 rubles →
Silicone
Silicone dildos are the most popular. And deservedly so. They are flexible, durable, hypoallergenic, and quickly warm up to body temperature. Dildos made from this material come in a wide variety of colors, shapes, and sizes. Everyone can choose pleasure to suit their taste and budget.
The surface of silicone is pore-free, so bacteria cannot accumulate, making it easy to care for. Just wash the phallus with soap and water.
What to buy
- Realistic dildo from Bior toys, 2,668 rubles →
- Glow-in-the-dark dildo with suction cup from Orion, 3,014 rubles →
PVC
Fairly elastic and yet sufficiently firm polyvinyl chloride is a practical and durable material for artificial phalluses at an acceptable price.
Among the drawbacks is its low thermal conductivity. It's best to warm such a penis before use — hold it in your hands or immerse it in hot water. Also, PVC may contain small amounts of harmful phthalates and have a porous structure that serves as a breeding ground for bacteria.
What to buy
- Realistic dildo from Colt, 8,490 rubles →
- Lilac dildo from Doc Johnson, 2,000 rubles →
- Dildo from Doc Johnson, 4,500 rubles →
Plastic
Such dildos are suitable for rough sex. They do not cause allergies, are easy to care for, and their smooth surface has no hiding place for bacteria.
Over time, plastic can crack. And yes, such a penis is unlikely to please realism lovers — it doesn't resemble a natural member at all.
What to buy
- Stimulator from Doc Johnson, 3,685 rubles →
Glass
Transparent dildos resemble a modern decor element more than a tool of pleasure.
However, it is glass dildos that have proven to be the best in anal sex. They are easy to insert, do not cause allergies, and are easy to wash — whether in the sink or in the dishwasher. The advantage of glass is that it can be heated or cooled, bringing new shades to your sex life.
Of course, for dildos, special tempered glass is used, which is not so easy to break. The dildo will definitely not explode into a thousand sharp shards in an intimate area — no matter what you may fantasize about.
If you've decided on a glass wonder, take a smaller size. When a hard unyielding penis is inside, it will feel bigger than it actually is.
What to buy
- Transparent dildo from Arno, 2,200 rubles →
- Blue curved dildo from GLAS, 2,560 rubles →
What should be at the base of the dildo
The base of the dildo is very important. After all, it largely determines how you will be able to enjoy your purchase.
Extended base
It is essential for anal sex and strap-ons. In the first case, the expansion ensures safety, preventing too deep penetration. In the second case, it allows the dildo to be attached to harnesses or special panties.
Furthermore, a penis with an extension is suitable for fans of rough sex — it is easy to hold in your hand to make strong and rough thrusts.
Suction cup
A dildo with a suction cup attaches to any smooth surface, such as the bottom of a bathtub, the wall of a shower cabin, or even a mirror (as long as it is very stable). You can use such a sex toy hands-free, choosing a comfortable position.
What to buy
- Black dildo with red head from LOVETOY, 1,093 rubles →
- Dildo with suction cup from LOVETOY, 1,595 rubles →
- Curved flesh-colored dildo from "Twilight of the Gods", 1,620 rubles →
Testicles
They add more realism to the process. At the same time, testicles serve perfectly as a limiter and provide a comfortable grip. Another bonus is the additional stimulation of the external genitals.
What to buy
- Dildo with scrotum from Doc Johnson, 2,000 rubles →
- Universal dildo from Jelly Royale, 2,990 rubles →
What other options are there
Pleasures, like money, are never too much. That's why a huge variety of dildo models have been invented — so no one feels deprived.
Curved
They stimulate the G-spot and prostate well.
What to buy
- Curved dildo from Dream Toys, 2,321 rubles →
- Realistic dildo from LOVETOY, 950 rubles →
Ribbed
Ridges and bumps on the surface provide additional pleasant sensations, massaging you from the inside.
What to buy
- Glass dildo with bumps from "Twilight of the Gods", 1,330 rubles →
With ejaculation
This option creates a complete imitation of real sex. To achieve "ejaculation", it is enough to squeeze the bulb. The sperm in this case is replaced by a lubricant with a similar consistency.
What to buy
- Dildo with ejaculation Squirty Peter, 2,290 rubles →
- Coffee dildo with ejaculation simulation from Pipedream, 3,794 rubles →
For anal sex
Typically, such models are firmer, more elegant, and thinner than vaginal ones, with a mandatory flair at the bottom. They often taper towards the end, providing gradual and careful entrance. However, no one forbids using such models for vaginal penetration.
Double
This is a way to get all the pleasures at once. That is, to engage in both vaginal and anal sex simultaneously, without outside assistance.
What to buy
- Dildo for double penetration from Pipedream, 3,979 rubles →
- Dildo for double penetration from King Cock, 4,590 rubles →
- Dildo for double penetration from Erasexa, 4,539 rubles →
Double-ended
They resemble a hose with penises hanging from both ends. Such a device is intended for same-sex partners who want to enjoy sex on equal terms. However, traditional couples can also find a worthy application for a double-headed toy if they engage their imagination.
What to buy
- Purple dildo from Eroticon, 1,292 rubles →
- Double-ended dildo AC/DC Dong, 2,390 rubles →
With vibration
Such a toy pleasantly massages the walls of the vagina, clitoris, and other erogenous zones. An orgasm is almost inevitable, and without additional efforts on your part.
To prolong the life of the toy, choose a waterproof model. Other options are difficult to care for, as moisture can quickly damage the mechanism.
Another nuance: dildos with vibration can be very noisy. And outside (and not always pleasant) sounds can spoil the pleasure.
How to care for the dildo
To ensure your new friend lasts longer, it requires attention and care — regardless of size, color, and price.
- For games with the dildo, a lubricant is needed. Water-based lubricant is ideal; silicone-based products should only be used with plastic and glass sticks.
- After use, be sure to wash the artificial penis in warm water. Dildos made from porous materials require additional treatment with antibacterial products for caring for sex toys.
- Store the dildo in a dry and dark place where sunlight does not penetrate. It's better not to toss it into a drawer with underwear or other sex toys, but to place it in a separate pouch.
