Why everyone loves the missionary position and what's wrong with it
It is natural and comfortable. It does not require extra effort and is almost the ideal position for lazy sex. The missionary position is the simplest way to stimulate all the sensitive spots on a woman's body: both the breasts, the clitoris, and the G-spot.
In essence, this position has only one major drawback. It is so comfortable and popular that it quickly becomes boring and starts to seem dull. And missionary sex, correspondingly, becomes bland and less exciting.
Some lovers, having grown tired of the classics, throw themselves into extremes: they try to fit in one intimate session both doggy style, and 69, and even fingering with fisting. Of course, these are also interesting practices. But you can bring back some excitement to the missionary position with simpler methods.
9 variants of the missionary position that are worth trying
1. With a "friend"
We're not talking about a threesome (although that's an interesting experiment too), but about a vibrator. The device will add elements of play and increase arousal, for both partners at once. The woman may experience an orgasm even before traditional intimacy occurs.
If you don't have a vibrator, you can use your tongue. Oral sex is a great appetizer for the main missionary dish.
2. With a massage
One of the delights of the missionary position lies in the extensive tactile contact — skin to skin. Feel this moment and enhance it. Press against your partner as closely as possible, wrapping your body with your arms and legs, caressing their back and thighs.
Imagine that you are desperately hungry and can only be satisfied through touch. "Eat" your partner in your embrace.
3. With eye contact
Another undeniable advantage of the missionary position is the ability to see your partner's face. However, it's rarely utilized as people prefer to close their eyes from pleasure.
Try to disrupt the usual course of things: agree that you will look into each other's eyes the whole time, up to the very end. Eye contact enhances the feeling of closeness. And seeing the eyes of your loved one at the moment they experience orgasm is an intense experience. They say some people even start to cry at such moments. Check if you can hold back.
4. With a pillow under the hips
It's simple: when a woman raises her hips, the angle of entry into the vagina changes. The male member stimulates its upper wall more actively, and that's where the coveted G-spot is located. Therefore, the sensations from missionary sex with a pillow under the hips are significantly brighter.
5. With legs wrapped around
The woman pulls her knees to her chest and wraps her legs around the man, closing them behind his back. There's no need to demonstrate wonders of flexibility: it's enough for the partner's calves to land approximately at the man's waist. In this position, the vagina shortens somewhat, meaning the member reaches the cervix.
Men especially feel the changes acutely: orgasm for them in such embraces may come faster than usual.
6. With crossed legs
As soon as the man enters, the woman brings her straight legs as close together as possible, even crossing them if possible. This way, the entry into the vagina becomes narrower and tighter, closely embracing the member. And this heightens sensations for both partners.
7. With bent knees
This variant requires some flexibility from the woman, but it's worth it. The partner bends her legs at the knees and pulls them to her chest. Then she spreads them slightly so her partner can lie on top. It's not very comfortable, but in this position, the entire surface of the vulva and clitoris is additionally stimulated. Unusual and vivid sensations are guaranteed.
8. With coital alignment technique
The man lies on top but then shifts his hips slightly higher than the usual position. In this case, the member enters the vagina almost vertically.
There is no need to make the usual penetrating movements — sliding motions are important. The partner's pubic bone will rub against the clitoris, and this provides just the stimulation that many women need for an unforgettable orgasm.
9. With deep breathing
The deeper you breathe, the sharper you feel. Start with slow frictions and breathe in harmony with them, trying to concentrate on your sensations. When you both master deep breathing, add a little play to the sex: let your partner adjust the rhythm of penetration to your inhale-exhale. This will initiate the mechanism of empathy, and you'll truly feel like one whole.
Bonus — a memorable orgasm, of course. But against the backdrop of the feeling of incredible closeness, these are just small details...
