"Quick sex" (from English quicky — fast) can be just as bright and memorable as intimacy with a long foreplay and thoughtful caresses. It is enough to follow a few simple rules. But first — a little theory.
What you need for a quick orgasm
If we are talking about a healthy man, it's simple: to have a high probability of experiencing release, a sexual act with a woman who is liked is enough.
For girls, the situation is a bit more complicated. The trigger for a female orgasm is not so much physiology (although it also plays an important role), but psychological factors. Loverssex has already written in great detail about female orgasm. Therefore, we will provide a brief summary from the guru of modern sexology Masters and Johnson: Research, Study & Technique William Masters and Virginia Johnson, authors of the book "Masters and Johnson on Love and Sex".
Here are five conditions necessary for a woman to experience orgasm.
- Absence of anorgasmia — a physiological inability to experience orgasm.
- Fondness for the partner as the prevailing emotion. If there are feelings, but the woman is troubled by other concerns — worry about how she looks, lack of confidence in the man, or, say, anxiety due to a report not submitted on time — achieving orgasm is almost impossible.
- Desire for physical closeness. Simply put, the woman must be aroused.
- Understanding by the partner of the psychological traits of the woman. Psychological comfort is a key factor Determinants of female sexual orgasms , without which female orgasm is almost impossible.
- A partner who is well acquainted with the erogenous zones and sexual preferences of the woman.
7 important rules for quick sex
1. Lay the foundation
"Quickies" will be maximally bright and effective only if you know each other's bodies and preferences well. And of course, you experience mutual trust. Therefore, before quick sex episodes, take the time to get to know each other better.
2. Choose a place
The most delicious thing about quick sex is its spontaneity. But that doesn't mean you can just pounce on each other in the first location you find. You probably wouldn't want to find an erotic clip of yourselves starring on YouTube, so a car in a public parking lot or a lawn in the park is not the best option.
Choose an unexpected but still secluded place. It could be a locked office for a while. A closed fitting room in a half-empty store. A toilet in a sparsely populated café. A bathroom or kitchen table — while the kids are sleeping. A car will also do if it has tinted windows and you've parked somewhere away from busy streets.
The fear of being caught off guard should not outweigh your attraction to each other.
3. Think in advance about comfortable clothing
There are only four requirements for it: it can be easily unbuttoned, won't tear, won't wrinkle, and won't show accidental traces of passion too noticeably. For example, the most comfortable women's quick uniform is a skirt and stockings (not tights).
4. Ensure arousal
Quick sex doesn’t allow time for foreplay. Therefore, to make the process go smoothly, you need to prepare each other in advance.
You can stimulate arousal with intimate messaging in messengers. Or a hot whisper in the ear while a hand seemingly casually touches intimate places. Or caresses while you look for a convenient parking spot or sit at a table in a café. Find your own way of preparation.
Have intimate lubricant on hand — in case the woman doesn't get sufficiently aroused.
5. Choose a comfortable position
The Kama Sutra is irrelevant during spontaneous sex. Stick to classic, quickly achievable, and fail-safe options:
- partners face to face — the woman stands in front of the man, leaning against a vertical surface, sits in front of him on a table, or sits on his lap;
- the "man from behind" position.
6. Use techniques that are sure to work
Perhaps your partner gets aroused when you say dirty things to him. Or quickly reaches a peak from oral caresses. You know your loved one better than anyone else, so use that fail-safe technique that is guaranteed to please him.
7. Remember about hygiene
Make sure you have paper or wet wipes ready. This will help you quickly get rid of the traces of spontaneous sex and return to your usual (albeit somewhat bland after what happened) social life without embarrassment.
