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How to choose anal toys for pleasure, not problems.

How to choose anal toys for pleasure, not problems.

What anal toys are there

The widest assortment of anal toys can be divided into the following main categories.

Anal plugs

They are needed to stretch the anus before the penetration of a dildo or penis. But plugs can be used not only as a means of preparation for anal sex. These toys multiply pleasure in themselves by creating pressure on erogenous zones and causing a pleasant feeling of fullness. Such "pressing" is the key to orgasm for many women.

What to buy

  • Silver anal plug with a crystal at the base, 918 rubles →
  • Purple anal plug with a ring holder, 1,098 rubles →
  • Blue anal plug with a round tail, 4,700 rubles →
  • Set of four anal plugs of different sizes, 4,500 rubles →
  • Anal plug with a fluffy tail made of natural fur, 1,990 rubles →

Anal beads

Anal beads are beads of various sizes on a flexible connection. They are arranged in size from small to large, which provides gradual stretching of the anus during penetration. For this reason, the toy is ideal for beginners.

After inserting the bead, it is removed from the anus, thus massaging sensitive areas. This can be done at different speeds — depending on your preferences and desired effect. Beads are played with both during foreplay and masturbation, as well as during traditional intercourse to achieve a more intense orgasm.

What to buy

  • Anal chain with a handle in the form of a plug, 1,683 rubles →
  • Anal tree with seven beads, 2,300 rubles →
  • Anal chain with vibration, 1,290 rubles →
  • Anal chain with ten beads, 890 rubles →

Anal dildos

Although almost any dildo with a flared base is suitable for anal sex, it is better to use special ones. This is especially true for novices.

Artificial penises for the anus are generally more elegant than regular dildos. They often feature a tapered head, which facilitates penetration. Many anal toys have a slightly curved shape — for more effective stimulation of the prostate in men and the back wall of the vagina in women.

What to buy

  • Glass dildo with a spiral, 1,790 rubles →
  • Dildo with a lubricant dispenser, 1,099 rubles →
  • Double-sided dildo for anal and vaginal stimulation, 2,390 rubles →
  • Dildo with a ring handle, 1,089 rubles →

Prostate massagers

They not only enhance the sensations of orgasm but also strengthen "the second heart of a man" — the prostate. And its health, in turn, affects the quality of sexual life. So, enjoying pleasure in this case is also extremely beneficial.

Many prostate massagers are equipped with vibration. The most advanced models are remotely controlled, either by a remote or smartphone, allowing you to choose between several speed modes.

What to buy

  • Prostate stimulator with vibration, 7,590 rubles →
  • Prostate and perineum stimulator, 1,026 rubles →
  • Prostate stimulator with vibration, 4,190 rubles →

Anal vibrators

Anal vibrators come in every flavor and color. For instance, with beads or in the form of a plug that you can wear internally and turn on with a remote control if you suddenly want something thrilling. There are also double vibrators for couples, so no one gets left out.

What to buy

  • Anal vibrator with seven modes, 4,869 rubles →
  • Conical anal vibrator, 2,952 rubles →
  • Anal vibrator with remote control, 4,790 rubles →
  • Anal vibrator with dual motor, 2,390 rubles →

How to choose an anal toy

Beginners who are not familiar with the intricacies of anal play should pay attention to the following recommendations.

Make sure your toy has a flared base

A flared base is present on almost all anal toys. This limiter serves as a guarantee that the item will not slip too deep into the anus and get stuck in the rectum, from where it will have to be removed by medical professionals.

Avoid porous materials

It is optimal if anal toys are made from smooth materials — silicone, borosilicate glass, stainless steel, or even stone. A porous surface will gather a large collection of bacteria that are abundant in the anus, and it will be impossible to clean them off.

Don’t overdo it with size

Toys vary in length and diameter, and they are often sold in sets of three pieces of different calibers, which is extremely convenient. It is better to start with a smaller size, up to 3 cm in diameter, and over time you can move on to something larger.

Pay attention to texture

Bumps, nodules, and ridges are relevant for people who are already experienced in anal sex. For starters, look for models with a perfectly smooth surface. Because if the sphincter is not yet developed, any excess can cause pain.

Start with an anal plug

If anal sex is new to you, start with a small plug. It is easy to insert into the still narrow anus. Pay attention to models with a pump: you will be able to adjust the size of the toy independently, gradually stretching the anus.

Once you're a little used to it — add vibration

For those who are already somewhat knowledgeable about the subject, you can switch to vibrating toys. They warm up erogenous zones beautifully and help prepare the anus for penis insertion. You can use them both before and during intercourse. But it’s better to turn on the vibration when the toy is already inside, otherwise, it will be difficult to insert the item. Therefore, it is much more convenient if the device is remote-controlled.

Consider gender

Most anal toys — except for the prostate massager — are universal and suitable for both men and women. But keep in mind that smooth anal plugs of the classic conical shape do not stimulate the sensitive prostate, depriving the male half of a lion's share of pleasure. Therefore, it is recommended for guys to look for a toy with a curve. For example, something like this.

What to do next

Stock up on lubricant

For unobstructed penetration, an oil-based lubricant is particularly good. But remember that it cannot be used with condoms: fatty components destroy latex. Water-based lubricants provide excellent glide and contain minimal chemicals, but dry out quickly. Silicone products are used more economically, but they cost more and leave stains.

Beginners are best off using special lubricants for anal sex: they do not dry out as quickly and contain relaxing substances.

Whatever you choose, you will need a lot of lubricant since neither the anus nor your toy produces natural lubrication.

What to buy

  • Anal lubricant based on silicone, 600 rubles →
  • Anal lubricant based on water, 720 rubles →
  • Anal lubricant with mint extract and hyaluronic acid, 900 rubles →

Take care of hygiene

Before starting experiments, rinse the anus with a rectal shower. Or a small enema that can be purchased at a sex shop. The volume should not exceed 400 ml, and the most common and convenient option that suits almost everyone holds about 200 ml.

And also: never use the same dildos for anal and vaginal sex. The anus and vagina represent two separate ecosystems, and it's important that they do not exchange bacteria.

Don't rush things

Start inserting the toy slowly and carefully, stopping at the slightest sign of discomfort and pain.