Rimming, or analingus, refers to oral pleasures of the anal passage. Like anal sex, this practice is surrounded by many internal taboos and concerns. But, if you both want to try it, nothing terrible will definitely happen. Just follow these recommendations — and perhaps rimming will please you.
1. Wash thoroughly
Hygiene is an important part of safe rimming. It's not just about unpleasant odors, but also about pathogenic bacteria in the anal opening Everything You Need to Know About Rimming (Analingus) . We wash our hands before eating to avoid bringing infections inside. The same principle applies here: take a shower and wash thoroughly with soap wherever you will be touched by the tongue.
2. Use protection
During rimming, just like with oral sex, you can catch some types of STIs. Namely herpes, human papillomavirus, gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis A and B. If you are unsure about your partner's health status, use dental dams or special latex wipes. A regular condom also works: cut it lengthwise and unfold it to create a rectangle.
3. Start with simple doggy style
The classic position on all fours is the best that can be devised for rimming. Just lift the hips a bit higher to facilitate access to sensitive areas.
4. Use lubricant
Take special gel lubes for oral sex: flavors and scents of fruits, chocolate, or caramel will help set a playful mood. Apply a few drops of lubricant around the anal opening.
5. Experiment
There is no specific technique for analingus. Gently spread your partner's buttocks and make circular movements with your tongue around the anus. Experiment with different directions and pressure. You can insert the tip of your tongue inside and play with it a bit. Incorporate kisses, sucking, and even light nibbling.
The main thing is to watch your partner’s reaction. Make sure it feels good for them and isn’t just ticklish.
6. Use your hands
They can be useful for stroking the buttocks or inner thighs, caressing the genitals. And if rimming is done by a girl, you can also massage the partner's testicles.
7. Don’t switch abruptly
You should not instantly switch from rimming to fellatio or cunnilingus. Flora foreign to the penis and vagina from the anus can cause itching and inflammation in those sensitive areas. To begin with, throw away or change the latex wipe if you are using one. And rinse your mouth thoroughly with water.
8. Don’t worry if you don’t like it
Rimming can be a spicy addition to sexual play, but by itself, it is unlikely to lead to orgasm. It’s possible that you may not like it at all. Treat analingus as a curious experience and another way to get to know yourself and your partner better.
