Scientists from Indiana University decided to find out D. Herbenick, J. Bowling, et al. Sexual diversity in the United States: Results from a nationally representative probability sample of adult women and men / PLoS ONE real sexual preferences of people. To do this, they asked men and women to choose from a long list the activities they engaged in and enjoyed.
In the top were masturbation and oral sex, but the most preferred was gentle sexual behavior. Researchers debunked the opinion that men are only visited by wild fantasies. It turns out they like good old vanilla sex!
Contrary to some stereotypes, the most attractive is romantic behavior. It includes kissing during sex, hugging, kind words, and a romantic atmosphere.
These results are consistent with a previous study A. Debrot, N. Meuwly et al. More than just sex: Affection mediates the association between sexual activity and well-being / Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin . It revealed that the main thing in sex is the feeling of closeness and attachment.
Other studies also show that an active and healthy sex life contributes to happiness and satisfaction. But only in the latest ones it is noted: such an effect can be achieved if sexual intercourse brings positive emotions.
Besides physical release, sex strengthens the bond between partners. Therefore, for several hours after lovemaking, both can be in an elevated mood.
But let's leave the world of sweet dreams for a moment. The study from Indiana University also emphasizes the importance of oral sex. A survey conducted by the dating site for married people Victoria Milan confirms The success of an affair depends on the amount of oral / Victoria Milan this data. According to the results, oral sex is so significant that due to its absence people often decide to part ways and cheat. Specifically, this concerns 65% of women and 68% of men.
The findings of the studies may seem obvious, but in one way or another, they bring us closer to understanding human desires. Do not ignore them. And even better — talk more often to your partner about what you both want. It is an excellent way to improve your sex life and your relationship as a whole.
