The classic butterfly position in sex looks something like this:
For sex in this position, a horizontal surface is needed: a bed, a table, or something similar. The partner lies on her back, pulls her hips as close to the edge as possible, and lifts her pelvis when the partner joins her. In the classic version, the woman's legs are directed vertically upwards. The man can either stand on his feet or on his knees — it depends on the height of the surface.
The butterfly position has many advantages. It does not require special physical preparation and provides deep penetration. Moreover, partners have a good view of each other. Here are some tricks that can make sex in the butterfly position even better.
Take care of comfort
The butterfly position is convenient by default, but there are nuances. For example, the partner may find it difficult to hold her pelvis in the air. In this case, it is advisable to place pillows under it or simply lower onto the bed.
You also need to take care of the partner. If he is on his knees on a hard floor, it wouldn't hurt to put something soft underneath. This way, you eliminate distractions and can fully enjoy the process.
Adjust the angle of entry
The angle between the bodies does not necessarily have to be strictly 90 degrees. For example, the man can lean towards the woman, or she can raise herself on her hands. Changing the angle of entry can naturally lead the partner's pubis to stimulate his partner's clitoris, which again increases pleasure without any dexterity.
Much also depends on the position of the partner's legs. If they are spread apart, penetration will be deeper; if they are closed, contact of the penis with the vagina will become denser. The legs can also be brought together and bent at the knees. So it's worth trying all options to find out which is more pleasurable.
Do not rush
Some positions require incredible balance and rushing towards orgasm before anyone’s leg falls asleep and blood pressure rises. The butterfly position allows you to stretch pleasure for as long as you want for an even more impressive finale.
Engage your hands
In the butterfly position, the partner can caress almost any erogenous zone of the partner. But more importantly, the clitoris is at hand, which can be easily stimulated alongside friction.
Some researchers suggest that only 8% of women are capable of Understanding orgasm regularly experiencing orgasm solely from vaginal penetration. So, clitoral stimulation makes a significant contribution to the partner's pleasure.
The woman can also engage her hands to caress the man or herself.
Keep lubricant on hand
If you decide not to rush anywhere and prolong pleasure, natural lubrication may not be enough. As a result, sex risks becoming painful. Lubricant will aid in smooth sliding and help avoid chafing. And, of course, it is essential for clitoral stimulation if you want it to be pleasure and not torture.
The main thing is not to forget that people are different, so to find the perfect sexual position option for both, it is worth experimenting. Especially since it is easy to do in the butterfly position.
