The name "lotus pose" breathes yoga. This is not случайно, and for a couple without some sports skills, performing it will not be easy. The lotus pose looks like this:
A man sits — ideally, of course, in that very lotus pose. But this is not at all necessary and even undesirable if the partner is not very experienced in yoga. Then it is enough to simply cross your legs. The woman sits on his thighs and throws her legs on his shoulders.
This position is good because the partners come together as closely as possible, and they can also hug and kiss each other. And there are some tricks that will help make sex in the lotus pose even better.
1. Try easier variations
The pose even in the picture looks quite uncomfortable. If you feel pain and discomfort during the process, it is more likely to end in injuries rather than orgasm. So if you are not participating in a sexual Olympics, and there are no picky judges sitting nearby, then you can boldly make your situation easier.
For example, let the partner not throw her legs on the man's shoulders but cross them behind his back. Or the partner can sit on the edge of the bed, and lower his legs to the floor. Experiment with the position of your limbs until it becomes comfortable.
It is also more convenient to have sex in the lotus pose on a soft surface and to use additional pillows. They can be placed, for example, under the man's knees to slightly reduce the pressure on them.
2. Don't strive for standard frictions
In more standard positions, at least one partner has points of support that help him move in a way that ensures standard frictions. In the lotus pose, the position of both partners is quite precarious — in a literal sense. Therefore, the interaction must be different.
This pose is for slow sex. The woman leads here, but she cannot rise and fall in full amplitude. However, she can perform other types of movement with her hips, such as small circles or eights. The man can help and guide her by holding her hands on her buttocks.
3. Use lubricant
In the lotus pose, not only the penis and vagina touch, but also the adjacent areas. For example, there is a high probability that the partner's clitoris will rub against the partner's pubis — and this is a bonus of the position. But to achieve orgasm, rather than skin damage in sensitive areas, it is better to use lubricant, as natural lubrication may not be sufficient for such areas.
4. Stimulate erogenous zones
There are not so many positions in which the upper parts of the partners' bodies are close, and both hands are free. This means you can actively kiss and stimulate each other's erogenous zones, including non-obvious ones, such as ears or a secret spot under the shoulder blade. Usually, attention is paid to them only during foreplay, but why not remember them during sex.
5. Make a plan B for climax
Often, couples change several positions during one intercourse. But from the lotus position, especially in its classic execution, it is not so easy to get out without getting tangled in limbs. Therefore, it is better to discuss in advance, or even try, how you will do this.
For example, a quite logical option is for the partner to lean back, throw off her legs, and then just stand on them. But if the partner has stretching problems, it may hurt him, which puts the continuation of sex in question. So a bit of foresight wouldn't hurt.
