1. Weighted Blanket
If you have never been restrained during intimate play, a weighted blanket is a simple and safe way to try out what it’s like to make love while being almost immobilized.
Such an accessory is not heavy enough to fully restrain the partner below. Moreover, the blanket during sex can only cover the area from the hips to the shoulders. But perhaps the "bottom" will enjoy feeling partially restrained, while the "top" will enjoy dominating. This experience will surely add color to your sexual play and make you think about other experiments.
In any case, this purchase will not be in vain: it is incredibly cozy to fall asleep under a weighted blanket.
What to Buy
- Single weighted blanket with polypropylene granule filling from Bio-Textiles, 9,328 rubles →
- Double weighted blanket with buckwheat husk filling from Bio-Textiles, 8,448 rubles →
2. Handcuffs
We are not talking about rigid steel options, but fluffy or silicone handcuffs. Or even soft straps with Velcro that can be secured under the mattress or at the headboard of the bed.
The partner who wants to be more submissive lies on their back or face down. The other, dominant partner, secures their hands (optionally - legs) with soft straps. Then, one can do massage, engage in oral sex, or other sexual practices that you have previously agreed upon. The straps and soft cuffs are easily detachable, so you can stop the play at any moment.
What to Buy
- Faux leather handcuffs from Pink Rabbit, 1,530 rubles →
- Faux fur handcuffs from Shots Toys, 2,260 rubles →
- Faux leather handcuffs with a chain from Bijoux Indiscrets, 3,240 rubles →
- Silicone handcuffs from Lola Toys, 852 rubles →
3. Eye Mask
In BDSM, it is used for sensory deprivation — which is the limitation or loss of one of the senses. The mask allows you to temporarily "turn off" vision to enhance your other sensations during sex.
A good idea: give your partner with blindfolded eyes a sensory massage. For example, using ice cubes, a brush, or a feather. These sensations they will definitely not forget.
What to Buy
- Natural leather mask from Pink Rabbit, 1,440 rubles →
- Satin mask from Obsessive, 989 rubles →
- Lacquer mask from Sitabella, 594 rubles →
4. Soft Nipple Clamps
Nipples are one of the most sensitive erogenous zones, both for women and men. Most likely, during sex, you have already tried stimulating them with your tongue or fingers. Clamps will allow for such exciting stimulation to be constant (for the duration of your bed pleasures, of course).
There are many such toys, including rigid metal variants-clips or models where the nipple clamps are connected by a chain to a clitoral clamp. But to start with, choose the simplest option with soft silicone caps.
What to Buy
- Gag with silicone nipple clamps from Lapin Rose, 2,241 rubles →
- Nipple clamps with chain decor from Bior toys, 450 rubles →
- Nipple clamps with black fluff from Bior toys, 423 rubles →
5. Plug
This is the name for a small anal plug. It does not penetrate deep into the anus and only allows a person to understand whether they enjoy this type of sex.
What to Buy
- Anal plug with a diameter of 2 cm from NS Novelties, 1,800 rubles →
- Set of three anal plugs with diameters from 2.5 to 3.5 cm from Baile, 2,133 rubles →
- Anal plug with a diameter of 1.5 cm from Lola Toys, 890 rubles →
- Anal plug with a crystal, diameter 2.7 cm from Lola Toys, 990 rubles →
6. Spank
This is a soft flexible paddle, most often covered with leather, used for spanking — lightly slapping the partner's buttocks. They do not cause much pain, but due to the rush of blood to the pelvic area, they can enhance arousal.
What to Buy
- Spank made of natural leather from "Podium", 2,000 rubles →
- Spank made of natural leather with studs from "Podium", 2,200 rubles →
- Wooden spank, 2,600 rubles →
7. Wartenberg Wheel
This is the name for a massager the size of a toothbrush. It has a rotating head with many metal pointed spikes.
It looks frightening, but in reality, the spikes are not sharp enough to truly injure. However, the Wartenberg wheel can effectively stimulate nerve endings on the skin's surface and enhance blood flow — for example, to the thighs, buttocks, and chest.
What to Buy
- Wartenberg wheel with electrostimulation and remote control from Shots Media, 5,790 rubles →
- Wartenberg wheel from Shots toys, 1,690 rubles →
8. Desire Dice
With this toy, it’s simple: take turns rolling the dice and do what comes up on one of the faces.
Clearly, in a BDSM execution, the dice may suggest quite hard options for sexual play. However, there are also other versions of the toy — with softer instructions.
The faces can talk about different types of sex — for example, the dice might instruct you to tease your partner with your tongue or have sex doggy-style. Or it may indicate a place where you must immediately give each other pleasure: this could be the kitchen table, bathroom, windowsill.
What to Buy
- Dice with body parts and stimulation methods from "Sima Land", 140 rubles →
- Dice with positions and tempo from "Sima Land", 130 rubles →
- Dice with positions and roles from "Sima Land", 360 rubles →
- Dice with positions and place of execution from "Sima Land", 340 rubles →
- Dice with names of caresses and their duration from "Sima Land", 340 rubles →
