How to prepare for sex on the windowsill
First of all — a few basic rules of safety and comfort.
1. Assess the view from the window
In fact, it is one of the key reasons why it's worth making love specifically on the windowsill. If there’s a dump outside or, for example, a dull view of a factory entrance, you won't have much aesthetic pleasure at the very least. Whether you'll achieve orgasm is also quite a question.
Ideally, choose a window with impressive perspectives: for example, a view of a park or a busy city avenue.
2. Make sure the windowsill is wide enough
If one partner is going to lean their forehead against the glass or, say, can't comfortably settle on the horizontal, things won't go well. The width of the windowsill should be at least 30 centimeters — to at least place your elbows on it.
3. Ensure the windowsill is sturdy
Weak structures with protruding elements over the wall won't do: there's a risk that the intimate meeting will be remembered not for the joys of sex, but for a sudden fall and a subsequent rather expensive repair (better if it's not treatment).
4. Pay attention to the frame
The frame is one of the support points and your insurance against accidental falling. The thicker and sturdier it is, the better.
5. Deal with the radiators
In warm weather, you can ignore them. But in the heating season, radiators can add an unpleasant spark to your meeting — even burns.
6. Assess the surroundings — will anyone see you
This is particularly important, as if the window is on the first or second floor, anyone can peek in. So either draw the curtains — although this will undoubtedly ruin the view — or be prepared for unexpected witnesses.
7. Prepare lubricants
Due to the uniqueness of the position, a woman may not produce enough natural lubricant, so a gel lubricant should be on hand. You will also need a towel or paper napkins. Place them together with the prepared lubricant.
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What positions are suitable for sex on the windowsill
1. Standing from behind
The simplest and most predictable option. The woman leans with her palms or elbows on the windowsill, and the man enters from behind. In this position, the penis will additionally stimulate the G-spot, and the girl, straightening or leaning forward, can change her sensations. The man will have the partner's tempting fifth point under his hands.
Both face the window — this will provide additional aesthetic pleasure (if, of course, you chose a window with a good view).
2. Standing with a raised leg
An ideal option for spontaneous quick sex. The woman leans her butt against the windowsill. The man stands facing the partner and lifts her thigh to open access to the vagina. With his other hand, he holds his partner's back.
In this position, the penis will enter the vagina at an angle, and during motions, the clitoris will be actively stimulated, enhancing sensations.
3. Hanging lock position
The woman sits on the edge of the windowsill, leaning on it with her hands, and wraps her knees around the partner's waist to avoid falling. The man supports her back. This position is fully controlled by the partner, who sets the tempo and depth of penetration.
4. Shoulder straps
This position is similar to the previous one, except the girl raises her legs higher and places them on the partner's shoulders (like officer epaulettes — hence the name). The man, in turn, firmly holds the partner by the waist, not allowing her to lean back too much.
Deep penetration in this position won't be possible, but vigorous clitoral stimulation during movements is guaranteed.
5. Cunnilingus standing
The girl stands facing the glass, leaning her hands on the windowsill and arching her back. The man sits under the window with his back to the wall, so that his face is as close as possible to her thighs.
In this position, everyone will get their share. The partner can caress his beloved not only with his tongue, but also by grabbing her buttocks with his hands. The woman will experience orgasm with a view of the world outside the window.
6. Cunnilingus sitting
The woman sits on the windowsill and spreads her legs. The man kneels in front of her. In this position, the power belongs to the partner: with her free hands, she can direct, move away, press her partner’s head to intensify or lessen her own sensations.
