It doesn't really matter whom you pleasure with your lips and tongue: a man or a woman. What matters is how.
Here are simple and at the same time very sensual techniques that will take your oral sex to a new level of pleasure.
1. Lollipop
The clitoris The Assessment of Sensory Detection Thresholds on the Perineum and Breast Compared with Control Body Sites and the penis are the most sensitive erogenous zones of the human body. So, imagine that this zone is a lollipop.
With your tongue fully extended, lead it from the base of the “lollipop” to the tip. Once you reach the top, begin to lick and caress it with just the tip of your tongue. Then, after playing for a couple of seconds, slowly move down and come back up, this time encircling the tip with your lips and gently sucking it. Repeat several times until you’ve licked the “lollipop” from all sides.
2. Vacuum
Wrap your lips around the head of the clitoris or penis and gently pull it into your mouth while simultaneously caressing with your tongue. Then release the head and repeat, but this time pull a bit more intensely.
Gradually, approach by approach, increase the intensity of the sucking and make it rhythmic — as if simulating friction during regular sex.
3. With a hand
Think of your hand as if it is an extension of your lips and tongue, inseparably connected to them. Caress with your mouth the clitoris or penis while simultaneously stroking and squeezing other areas in the perineum in rhythm.
When it comes to cunnilingus, you can use one or two fingers to feel for the G-spot and stimulate it with a beckoning motion (as if you’re making a "come here" sign with your fingers). During fellatio, firmly wrap your hand around the penis and move your hand in sync with the movements of your lips and tongue on the head.
4. High tension
With your tongue maximally tense, slightly curve its tip, alternate caressing the area beneath the head and the head itself. The sensitivity of these zones is very different, so your partner will experience unusual and powerful sensations.
5. Ice and fire
Before touching your partner's erogenous zones with your tongue and lips, place a piece of ice or a cube of frozen juice in your mouth. You can also try alternating drinks from two cups during cunnilingus or fellatio — one with very warm water and the other with cold. The temperature change will add intensity to the sensations.
6. Buzzing
Firmly wrap your lips around the head of the penis or clitoris and start making buzzing sounds. This may seem funny, but the subtle vibration can quickly bring your partner to orgasm. Especially if during the process you caress the erogenous zones with the tip of your tongue and hands.
7. Lipstick
You will need a bit of associative thinking. Imagine that the clitoris or penis is a lipstick with which you are trying to generously apply makeup, and you are doing it without using your hands.
Simply glide your relaxed lips over the head, trying to cover its entire surface. Don't limit yourself to just your lips: try to smear this “lipstick” on your chin, cheeks, and nose.
This technique is not only pleasant, but it can also serve as a form of love confession, as it demonstrates that you adore your partner so much that you are ready to “get messy” with them completely.
8. Butterfly fluttering
Cover the entire perineum area with quick, light, and gentle kisses, including the testicles in men and the labia in women. This unusual technique of oral sex will serve as a refined and sincere foreplay to the subsequent pleasures.
