How to Prepare
To ensure that sex on a chair is pleasurable for both partners, some preparation is needed, taking a few points into consideration.
Choose the Right Furniture
This is important. During passionate sex, it’s easy to lose yourself, lose your balance, and suddenly find yourself on the floor instead of at the peak of bliss. It's good if there are no bruises or injuries. Therefore, the furniture should be stable.
The following are not very suitable for sex on a chair:
- Office chairs with wheels. Not only can they roll away from under you at the most unexpected moment, but they are often also models from the budget segment. A couple of intense movements are enough to break a handle, backrest, or lifting mechanism. If you opt for this option, push the chair against the wall with the backrest. And be as careful as possible.
- High bar stools. Their seats are small, and falling from them is high and painful. However, for oral sex, this is not the worst option.
- Classic stools.
It’s better to go with one of these options:
- Massage chair. This is the perfect choice! Such furniture is designed for loads. Moreover, it reclines, and you can adjust the tilt of the backrest to ensure maximum comfort for yourself and your partner. By the way, try turning on the massage mode: it will provide new sensations during sex.
- Office chair "for the boss". Typically, these are more spacious, heavy, stable, and reliable than regular office models. But the recommendation to push the chair against the wall still stands. After all, the potentially treacherous wheels haven't gone anywhere.
- Regular chair with a back. You can lean on it calmly. It’s also convenient to hold on to, and it won’t roll away by itself.
- Recliner chair. It’s spacious and stable. The main thing is not to break the backrest: the supports that adjust the tilt of the recliner can be made of not very reliable plastic.
- Rocking chair. This option is for enthusiasts, but rocking in sync with sex can turn out to be an additional stimulating factor.
Ensure Softness
Sex on a chair should be comfortable. It’s good if the surface of the furniture is soft by itself. But if there are hard details: wooden seat, hard plastic or wooden arms, angular backrest — find something to cushion the sitting partner’s buttocks and back in advance. A pillow, thick blanket, or in extreme cases, something from clothing will do.
Think About Cleanliness
Most likely, the chair will get dirty after your hot games. Therefore, even soft models should be covered with a thin fabric. Also, prepare dry and wet wipes to quickly wipe away any accidental traces after sex.
Choose Comfortable Clothing
This point mostly concerns the woman. It's good if she wears a skirt or dress instead of jeans or pants, as well as stockings instead of tights. A skirt without underwear is a foolproof option.
Stock Up on Lubricants
Sex on a chair is not quite ordinary, so it's not guaranteed that a female partner will feel arousal as quickly as usual. In case natural lubrication is insufficient, there should be a gel-lubricant at hand. It will provide gentle, smooth penetration and gliding.
What Positions are Suitable for Sex on a Chair
Experiment with different positions or choose from several of the most comfortable and simple options.
1. Face to Face
This is a classic. The man sits on the chair, and the woman straddles her partner, holding on to his shoulders or the backrest of the chair.
In this position, it's the female partner who sets the pace, depth, and angle of entry.
2. With a Bend
The starting position is the same as in the face-to-face position, but the woman throws her legs over the back of the chair and leans back. The man supports her with his hands.
In this position, the man leads: he determines the position of the woman's body and sets the pace.
3. Reverse Cowgirl
The man is still sitting on the chair. The woman "saddles" her partner, facing away from him. He can caress the woman's breasts and groin to increase her arousal.
4. Position from Behind
The woman, bending at the waist, leans forward and rests her elbows or palms on the chair. The man holds the woman by the hips and enters from behind.
This position is for deep penetration. The woman can move her hips to suggest a comfortable pace for her partner.
5. Position from Behind with a Squat
The woman stands on the chair with both legs and squats down. The man, holding the woman by the hips, guides her onto his penis.
In this position, the female partner can control the speed and depth of penetration.
6. Position for Oral Sex
The woman sits on the chair, leaning against the backrest and spreading her legs. The man kneels in front of her, wraps his hands around her thighs, and begins to work with his tongue.
This same position can be repeated if the partners switch places.
