Sitting sex is a simple way to diversify your intimate life: to try it, you don’t have to get out of bed, and the positions look much more interesting than the familiar missionary and doggy style.
The depth of penetration can be controlled not only by the man but also by the woman: it will be easy for you to find the angle at which both partners experience orgasm. We have gathered the most interesting positions from elementary to complex — get comfortable.
1. Classic
The man sits on a chair, the woman lowers herself on top, turned with her back to her partner. You can also sit facing each other.
To diversify the sensations, try changing the surface: for example, make love on the table or dresser. Just make sure in advance that the furniture won't break under your weight: finding out about this at the moment of orgasm is the last thing you want.
2. At the table
Repeat the classic position by pulling a chair up to the dining table: in this case, the partner will have an additional point of support. The girl needs to lean forward and rest her hands on the table: this way, you can rise higher and make faster movements with your hips. The position will come in handy if passion catches you right after dinner.
3. On the fitball
Use fitness equipment with imagination. The man sits on top. The woman turns her back to her partner and lowers herself onto his hips. During thrusts, you can gently sway, adjusting the angle of penetration. But be careful: it’s easy to lose balance in this position.
4. On the back of the chair
This position is ideal for anal sex: however, it also works for penetration into the vagina. The woman sits facing the back of the chair and throws her legs over it, bent at the knees. The man lowers himself behind her, lifts his beloved, and places her hips atop his. In this position, all movements are controlled by the lower partner, so he should be especially gentle and attentive.
5. Close contact
This position also needs a chair. The woman gets as close as possible to the backrest. The man sits facing his partner and places her legs on his hips. To avoid losing balance, hold onto the back of the chair.
6. Curved spoons
The man sits on the bed with a straight back, leaning against the wall. The woman kneels with her back to him and lowers herself onto the penis. This position somewhat resembles the "Reverse Cowgirl" and retains all its advantages: you can caress the man's scrotum and fully control the depth of penetration. To enhance sensations and feel maximum closeness, lean back slightly, pressing your back against your partner's chest.
7. Basket
A position for those who want to establish deep eye contact. Partners sit facing each other, the man slightly spreads his legs, and the girl positions herself on the penis. To make it more comfortable for the lower partner, he can bend one knee.
If you want to complicate the position, try the following technique: the woman throws her legs over the partner's shoulders and wraps her arms around his neck. Your faces will be very close to each other, and to maintain balance, the man can hug the girl around the waist.
8. Puzzle
The man sits, extending his legs forward, resting on his arms spread to the sides. Lying on her back, the woman positions herself between his feet and throws her bent knees over his shoulders. Her hands remain free: she can stimulate her clitoris, caress her breasts, or gently stroke the man's thighs.
9. Cradle
This position is good for men with strong arms: the weight of the girl will rest entirely on them. The partner sits and spreads his bent knees to the sides, with his heels together. The girl lowers herself onto the penis, sitting with her back to the man. He should lift the partner under her hips and knees, lifting her up and lowering her down.
It will be hard to hold this position for long if you’re not used to it, but the sensations will be very unusual: the man will feel complete control, while the girl's hands remain free and can caress her beloved.
10. Aphrodite
This position is liked by women who enjoy breast caressing. The man extends his legs forward. The woman sits on him sideways so that her body is perpendicular to the partner's body. During thrusts, she can lift and lower herself, and the man can also regulate the pace by supporting his partner with his hand. Her breasts and nipples are very close to his face: he kisses and nibbles them or gently strokes them.
11. Eyes to eyes
The man sits, extending his straight legs in front of him. The woman positions herself opposite him with bent knees and lowers herself onto the penis. To avoid losing balance, hold onto the partner's knees with your hands. The more actively the woman moves her hips, the faster the orgasm will come.
12. Diamond
The man sits, slightly spreading his legs. The woman lying on her back positions herself between his thighs and throws her bent legs over his shoulders. Leaning forward, the partner can kiss her, caress her breasts, neck, and shoulders.
13. Lotus flower
Don’t be scared by the name: this position requires a little stretching, but serious yoga is not required. The man sits cross-legged. The woman lowers herself on top, facing him, and places her legs on his shoulders. During thrusts, you will be as close as possible, able to gaze into each other’s eyes and kiss passionately.
14. Rattler (clapper)
In this variation, penetration will be especially deep. The partner lowers himself onto the bed, resting on his arms, and spreads his legs. The partner sits on her knees with her back to him and positions herself between his thighs. Then the woman arches forward, extending her arms: at this moment, the man can caress her buttocks and labia.
15. Waterfall
The man lies on the bed so that his head and shoulders are on the floor, and his thighs are on the bed's surface. The girl sits on the penis.
16. She-wolf
The woman sits, slightly spreading her legs, and leans back, resting her hands on the bed. The man lowers himself opposite her, placing one leg under the partner's pelvis, and the other over her thigh. Here the woman sets the pace: while she regulates the speed and depth of penetration, the partner can caress her with his hand.
17. Octopus
This is a more sensual version of the "Scissors" position. The man sits, bending one leg at the knee and extending the other forward. The woman lies on her back and wraps her legs around the bent leg of the partner: you should lie in a criss-cross position. Move slowly and gently to feel each other.
18. Spider
In this position, slow sex feels especially good. The man sits on the floor or bed, bracing himself on the surface with his hands and extending his legs forward. The woman turns to face her partner and lowers herself onto his penis. Then she leans back and supports herself on her hands. Her thighs should be between the partner's spread legs. Both knees are bent, with the feet resting on the floor or bed surface.
19. Ice cream
An incredibly exciting position! The man sits on his knees, keeping his back straight. The partner lowers herself onto his thighs as if sitting in a chair, pressing her feet against the bed's surface. The girl's legs should be bent and spread to the sides so that the man’s knees are between them. Holding onto her beloved's thighs, the partner moves up and down. During this time, the man has free access to her neck, breasts, and belly.
20. Maximum openness
The man sits on his knees, leaning his body back and resting on his hands. The woman turns her back to her partner and, keeping her weight on her own legs, lowers herself onto the penis. To maintain balance, she needs to hold onto the partner's forearms or elbows and slightly lean her head back.
In this position, it won’t be possible to enjoy each other for long, but it can greatly diversify the usual sex.
21. Leopard
A variation for couples who especially enjoy doggy style. The man sits on his knees and slightly leans back. To avoid losing balance, lean on one hand, keeping the other free. The woman gets on all fours, just like in a regular doggy position, and lowers herself onto the penis. With his free hand, the man can caress her thighs and buttocks.
22. Cleopatra
Sitting, you can practice not only vaginal but also oral sex. The woman sits on her knees and spreads her legs. The most comfortable way is to support yourself with your hand on the bed or floor. The man kneels facing the partner, lowers his face to her clitoris, and stimulates it with his tongue and fingers.
23. Book
This position will be liked by fans of "69". The man lies on his back. The woman lowers herself onto his face with her buttocks and leans toward his penis. It’s important not to sit on your partner and obstruct their breathing: keep the pelvis slightly elevated. The man caresses his partner with his lips and tongue, and she does the same to him.
24. Airplane
"It’s naive and funny, but it’s so easy on my shoulders": of course, because all the load in this position rests on the thighs. The man sits and spreads his legs slightly to the sides. The woman lowers herself onto the penis with her back to the partner and spreads her legs wide. This position requires good flexibility, but the sensations promise to be unforgettable. Moreover, in this position it is convenient to caress the testicles of the partner and additionally stimulate the clitoris.
