Sex

8 key rules of spontaneous sex

8 key rules of spontaneous sex

1. Choose places and inspect surfaces

Outside of the bed, it's important to be cautious. Make sure the support for sex is sturdy and there is nothing dangerous on it. Assess the risks: contacting sand on the beach or having sex in the forest is not always the best idea.

2. Use protection

Carry condoms in your pocket or bag — this will help you grab them in a second. Surging passion should not lead to unplanned pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections.

3. Use lubricant

Even when highly aroused, natural lubrication may not appear quickly or in sufficient quantity. Lubricant solves this problem. Therefore, it's most convenient to carry a small tube with an easy-to-open cap. The best choice is a colorless lubricant that leaves no stains on clothes.

4. Carry wipes

If you often have sex outside the home, learn to quickly tidy yourself up. Sex involves fluids and lubricant, spontaneity often means not fully removed clothing — it's easy to get messy. So it's good to have water or at least wet wipes on hand.

5. Forget about the sex marathon

The synonym for spontaneous sex is speed. This is not the option where pleasure needs to be stretched and you cuddle for a long time afterward. There is no time to seek new erogenous zones of your partner — everything should happen quickly.

6. Follow the laws

Or be prepared to answer in court. In Russia, for example, there is no separate article dedicated to public sex, but one can be prosecuted under the article "Petty Hooliganism".

It's helpful to research the laws of the country you are traveling to. Things are not the same everywhere as in the Mexican city of Guadalajara, where it is legislatively allowed Mexican City of Guadalajara Changes Laws to Allow Sex in Public to have sex on the street, provided there are no complaints from bystanders. Public sex is punishable not only in the UAE or Thailand. Bans exist in various countries, including European ones. Violating them can result in high fines or even imprisonment.

If you are unaware of the laws in a foreign country, avoid having sex in public places.

7. Don't abuse alcohol

Sometimes passion takes over when you drink. But if you are very drunk, sex is unlikely to be spectacular and may even cause problems. Intoxicated people often forget about contraception, do not care about the feelings of others, and have issues with the law.

8. Respect the rights of those around you

For example, in a fit of passion, closing yourselves in the airplane bathroom is not the best idea. There are few stalls on board, and holding it in when you need to go to the bathroom is much more dangerous and harmful than spending some time without sex.