To begin with, let's remind you of a simple rule: if you think it wouldn't hurt to add some lubricant, — you're not mistaken. "Dry" masturbation can lead to irritation due to friction. So be sure to use lubricant in all techniques listed below. Better to use a water-based one: such products are universal.
If you are already using lubricant, try increasing its amount. A light, damp glide can take your fingers further than usual, and make movements more confident and bold. And perhaps, this is precisely what will be the key to orgasm.
Masturbation Techniques for Women
1. With a shower head
Try massaging the perineum not with your fingers, but with streams of water, allowing them to penetrate the most secluded parts of your body. If such "tickling" seems insufficient, you can remove the attachment — then the effect of the water jet under pressure will become even more pronounced.
Option: buy a special shower attachment at a sex shop. It helps to regulate the diameter and pressure of the water jet, as well as to precisely set the direction of its movement. Such equipment can also be used for stimulating the extremely sensitive clitoris.
2. With a towel
This technique can be dubbed a simulator of the famous cowgirl position. Take a chair, place a thick rolled towel on it, sit on the structure in a straddle position and start the classic movements of the " woman on top." By the way, you can masturbate this way without taking off your panties.
3. With a towel and a vibrator
The scheme is the same as in the previous point, just wrap the sex toy in the towel. Naturally, turning it on beforehand.
4. In front of a mirror
Watching porn videos is arousing. But observing yourself in intimate moments is no less stimulating. Try to masturbate in front of a mirror. You can even set it closer to see in detail everything that your fingers are doing.
5. With video accompaniment
Just turn on a video where the main character successfully and passionately satisfies herself, and copy her, repeating the movements. People tend to empathize with what they see on screen, to identify with the characters, so when the girl in the plot experiences orgasm, there’s a good chance you will also be swept by sensations.
6. To music
A well-chosen playlist can enhance your results in training. Just as music can set you up for orgasm. Select rhythmic compositions that seem particularly arousing to you and move your fingers or vibrator to the beat.
7. With "scissor" hand
Make a V with your index and middle fingers of either hand and place the fingertips on either side of the external labia. Then, working your fingers like scissors, start moving the labia toward each other, squeezing them. Increase or decrease pressure and tempo depending on sensations.
8. With the whole hand
Wrap the external labia with your index finger and pinky. And gently insert your middle and ring fingers into the vagina — so that their inner side touches the clitoris at the same time. Make thrusting movements back and forth with the middle and ring fingers. And simultaneously, with your palm and free thumb, grasp and squeeze the pubic area to intensify sensations.
9. Hands-free
In principle, they are not a necessary part of masturbation. Here are a couple of simple positions where orgasm can be achieved without hands. Sit on a chair, cross your legs, and squeeze your thighs together as much as possible. Squeeze and relax your buttocks, gradually increasing the tempo.
The second option: lie on your stomach, spread your legs, and by moving your buttocks, start rubbing the clitoris against the bed (you can put a pillow under your hips). At first, do this at a very slow, relaxed pace, listening to the sensations. As pleasant warmth spreads in your groin, speed up.
Masturbation Techniques for Men
1. Rubbing against the palm
Wrap the erect penis at the base with one hand and rub the shaft and head against the open palm of the other. Due to the fact that the point of contact is constantly changing, stimulation will feel unexpected, varied, and will quickly lead to orgasm.
2. Up-down
Another way to diversify stimulation. Grip the penis at the base in a fist, squeeze it and move upward with a sliding motion to the head. Upon reaching the end, turn your fist so that the thumb is on the bottom, and descend to the base of the penis. Repeat the movements, turning your fist up and down.
3. "Milking"
Grip the penis at the base in any convenient way — for example, in a fist or in a ring with your index and thumb. Slide your hand toward the head of the penis as if trying to "milk" something out of it. When you reach the head, release your fingers and simultaneously grip the base of the organ with the other hand. Repeat. Alternate hands, gradually increasing the tempo.
By the way, the "milking" technique is key in jelqing. This is the method of physical stimulation that some optimists use to increase penis size.
4. On the side
Lie on your side, pulling your knees to your stomach. Moving your upper leg toward and away from you, you can stimulate the shaft and the head of the penis. When the arousal becomes palpable, straighten and extend your legs, grip the penis with your hand, and use your hips to finish the process.
5. Lying on your stomach
Lie on your side, gripping the penis closer to the head with your hand. Then turn onto your stomach — so that your fist is pressed against the mattress. Start moving in your hand, just as you do during normal sex — moving your hips.
6. In the shower
Playing with shower attachments is not just for women. Take the shower spray, direct warm water streams onto the perineum, pubis, base and shaft of the penis, and the testicles. Make circular movements to find the most pleasurable tempo and discover the most sensitive points.
When arousal becomes unbearable, without delaying in the shower, help yourself with your free hand.
7. With toys
The simplest and most accessible option is a male masturbator. There are dozens of types: gadgets for simulating vaginal and oral sex, manual and automatic, with warming and realistic sound effects. Just go to a sex shop, ask to see the selection — and your masturbation will never be the same.
8. With pillows
Place two pillows side by side, pressing them tightly against each other, and place the penis in the gap between them. Start moving your hips as in regular sexual intercourse while simultaneously squeezing the pillows with your hands, shifting them at different angles and adjusting the depth of the groove.
Keep in mind: after such masturbation, the pillowcases will need to be changed.
9. With elements of anal sex
The prostate is called the male G-spot and perhaps it is your way to achieve an amazing solo orgasm. Try to locate it.
To do this, gently explore the area near the anus with your fingers (lubricant is a must!), gradually penetrating the anal opening. The prostate is located about 5 centimeters deep, on the pubic side. It is easy to identify by touch — it feels like a small round bump.
Gently and carefully massage the prostate with stroking movements up and down. With your free hand, you can caress the testicles and penis to intensify arousal.
If using a finger is uncomfortable for you, try anal stimulators — these tiny vibrators designed for the male body can be bought at any sex shop.
