What to consider when choosing a position for sex
To feel liberated in bed, you don't have to look like you've won the Grand Prix at a tight butt contest. However, popular positions may not provide the desired pleasure if they do not take into account the features of your body.
Fullness can bring two challenges. Firstly, a large belly on one or both partners can sometimes make penetration difficult. If you want intense friction, you'll need to think carefully about the position.
Secondly, if the full partner is on top, it may be hard for the one below. This problem can be resolved by choosing a position where the second party does not bear the weight of the first. Partners with bodies should be particularly cautious with positions where the man holds them up: however, acrobatics should be approached mindfully regardless of weight.
During intimacy, you can use any sex toys, but if you're considering purchasing special furniture (for example sex swings), pay attention to their weight limits. The structure should support not only you but also your partner. The same applies to sex on a table.
All of these are just general warnings: your specific sexual scenario may not fit in the frames. Adapt the classics to your shapes. Look for new unconventional moves and try all positions that seem comfortable. We will suggest those that are most likely to bring pleasure.
1. Doggystyle
A position where the man is behind, and the female partner is on all fours, is particularly good for full women: in this case, the belly will not interfere with comfortable penetration. Additionally, in this position, it is convenient to further stimulate the clitoris.
If you have too soft a bed, during strong friction, the receiving party may feel unstable. In this case, try moving to the floor.
2. Dog on hind legs
A slightly more interesting variation of doggystyle. The woman is on all fours, turned with her buttocks to the edge of the bed, the man stands behind on the floor. During friction, the partner can lift a little, changing the angle of slope — this will provide more hot sensations.
3. Inverted starfish
The woman positions herself next to the bed, lays her torso on the bed, raising her hips up. The man enters the partner from behind. In this position, it is easier for the couple to maintain balance, as the area of support increases.
4. On the side
The woman lies on her side, the man positions himself behind. Since in this position no one has to support the weight of their partner, you can enjoy each other for quite a while. The girl can raise one knee — this will enhance the depth of penetration. To diversify sensations, use pillows of varying heights under the pelvis or toys.
In this position, it is also convenient to practice anal sex, as the female partner is particularly relaxed.
5. Modified missionary
It’s better for a large partner not to lie on top of the partner: instead, try to support your weight on your hands, although this can be quite difficult.
It's much more comfortable to kneel opposite the woman's spread thighs. You can also throw her legs over your shoulders. For comfort, place pillows under the girl's buttocks.
6. Butterfly position
A variation of the previous position: the man stands opposite the bed, the woman lies on her back, pointing her legs up. It's important to move right to the edge of the bed. The legs can be kept straight or wrapped around the partner's waist.
7. Cowgirl backward
The penis of full men may be partially hidden by the belly. To access it, take a look at positions where the woman is on top.
The cowgirl position is suitable for girls of any weight, as the partner can self-regulate the pace and depth of penetration. But the "Reverse Cowgirl" is especially good — a position where the woman sits on the man’s thighs, turned toward his feet. In this case, the belly won’t interfere with friction, and it's also particularly convenient to stimulate the partner's testicles and perineum.
8. Inverted cowgirl on knees (Thigh Tide)
This is the already familiar "Cowgirl backward," but with an important change: the man should bend one leg at the knee. The woman can wrap her partner's thigh with her hands and rub against it with her clitoris to bring herself closer to orgasm.
9. Standing
This position is particularly good if one of the partners is shy about their body: it won't be easy to see each other closely. The girl faces the wall, and the man penetrates her from behind: in this case, neither of the lovers will have to hold the weight of the other. The belly will also not create additional obstacles.
To make sex hotter, try to do it in front of a wall mirror: it will help establish deep visual contact. Just don't grab onto the glass with your hands: there is a risk of pulling it off its mounts.
10. Clapper position
A good position for couples with a full man. The partner sits on the bed, leaning on it with their hands, and spreads their legs. The woman kneels with her back to him, positioning herself between his thighs. Then the partner arches forward, stretching out her arms: this gives the man a good view of her buttocks and labia. An unusual angle will ensure deep penetration, and the belly will not interfere.
11. Big L (harp)
The woman lies on her side and lifts her upper leg to the ceiling — ideally at a 90-degree angle, but this is not strictly necessary. The man kneels as if straddling the partner's thigh and penetrates her, pressing the upper leg of the girl to his chest. If this variant seems too difficult, the woman can slightly bend her legs at the knees.
12. Position with bent leg
This position is reminiscent of "Big L" but is somewhat easier to perform. Its plus is the ability to easily stimulate the clitoris.
The woman lies on her back, bending one leg. The man kneels and lowers himself onto the straight leg of his beloved, leaning on his hands.
13. Scissors
Partners sit on the bed facing each other with bent knees. You need to intertwine your legs so that the man's left thigh is above the woman's right and vice versa. The girl leans back, maintaining the position of the legs. In such a position, sensual slow sex is especially good.
Bonus: intramammary sex
That is, a variant of intimacy where the man slides his penis between the partner's breasts. A large bust in this case enhances pleasure: just squeeze the breasts with your hands.
The woman lies on her back, the man sits slightly below the partner's breasts and begins to perform friction. To avoid skin irritation, use lube. It's better to use edible, as intramammary sex very easily transitions to oral sex.
