1. Engage in sexting
Sexting, or frank correspondence with the exchange of erotic photographs, serves as an excellent prelude, slowly heating mutual sexual interest. You can engage in it even while sitting in adjacent rooms or lying next to each other on the couch. Have you never done this? The better. It's time to start.
2. Change the scenery
You don't even need to go anywhere or spend money on hotel apartments. You are surrounded by places for having sex. In such quantity that it's easier to list locations where it is dangerous or prohibited by law Article 244 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation. Desecration of the bodies of the deceased and places of their burial, Article 135 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation. Lewd acts (playground, kindergarten, cemetery).
Variety begins just outside the bedroom door — on the kitchen table, in the shower, or even on a wide windowsill. Just in a fit of passion, try not to forget about safety so that your experiment doesn't end up with a fall.
3. Browse together in a sex shop
Perhaps you were shy to do this alone. But together you can really have fun! After thoroughly exploring the assortment and shopping, it's important not to stop. You should apply all the sex toys and other purchases as intended, even if not in one evening.
4. Choose another time
Sex is primarily associated with the evening and night. But by this time, many feel tired, especially after a hard day's work. But in the morning, after a good sleep, intimacy can bring much more pleasure and benefits. It is believed that morning sex makes you more productive Morning Sex May Make You More Productive, A New Survey Says / Bustle , boosts immunity How a spot of morning passion can make you glow all day long / The Daily Mail Online and is quite capable of replacing Forget the gym, SEXERCISE is the best way to slim: Making love burns almost as many calories as a 30-minute jog / The Daily Mail exercise.
5. Add adrenaline
Many are annoyed by movie scenes where heroes have sex in moments of danger — instead of running for their lives. Neither a volcanic eruption, nor a zombie invasion, nor a drug dealer shootout can stop lovers from merging in ecstasy.
And it is not just the imagination of crazy screenwriters! Risk truly excites A Guide to Your Body’s Pleasure Chemicals / Swell . We do not encourage you to chase an orgasm in a car that is racing at 100 km/h. The adrenaline level can easily be raised even at home if there’s a danger of being caught by guests or relatives.
6. Invest in lingerie
Just trying on and buying lingerie sets the right mood. You can do this together. Another option is to arrange a surprise with a light striptease and the presentation of the new items.
7. Create a romantic atmosphere
Regular healthy sex between dinner and sleep quickly turns into a routine. Occasionally create a sense of celebration around this "physiological need." A romantic dinner, candles, a slow dance — all of this still works, even if it’s as old as the world.
8. Watch erotic movies
First of all, you can draw something new from them. Secondly, beautiful erotic scenes awaken dormant desire. However, not all of them should be repeated.
9. Share fantasies
Erotic fantasies push the boundaries of what you have allowed yourself in the bedroom before. People dream of all kinds of unexpected things: from a sensual massage of the heels to sex on the beach in a group of four.
Open conversations about secret desires help to know each other better and act as an aphrodisiac. Moreover, it is not necessary to bring everything said to life. Especially when it comes to something unacceptable for the partner.
10. Play role-playing games
Role-playing games allow you to embody obsessive sexual fantasies without cheating and subsequent divorce with asset division. However, not everyone can convincingly get into character. So approach what’s happening with a sense of humor. If you can’t get turned on, at least have fun.
For example, imagine that you don't know each other. Flirt and seduce one another as if you met for the first time. And you don’t know if you’ll see each other again after a night of passion. This version of the role-play doesn’t even require costume changes. It’s enough to engage your imagination.
11. Give an erotic massage
Erotic massage allows you to uncover new "hot spots" on a body that seems to be well-known inside and out. Awaken your inner explorer, and passion will awaken too.
12. Try different touches
There are many ways to diversify tactile sensations — both during foreplay and directly during intercourse. For example, you can gently stroke each other with feathers or excite receptors with ice cubes.
13. Blindfold
When you can’t see anything, the other senses heighten to compensate for Effects of Sensory Deprivation / Proceedings of the Royal Society of Medicine blindness. A blindfold will make your skin especially sensitive to touch. And the uncertainty will add adrenaline and increase excitement.
14. Add music
Music will set the right mood and set the rhythm for your movements. You can create a sexy playlist together or use one of the options from Loverssex.
15. Don't be shy about sounds
Loud sighing, moaning, and screaming during sex is completely normal. Don’t hold back the "sounds of passion." Few things get you more excited than the realization that your partner is losing control from pleasure.
16. Don’t forget about smells
Many scents pleasantly stimulate the olfactory receptors, thus bringing a touch of novelty to sexual sensations. Topping the list Which Essential Oils Can Help You Set the Mood for Intimacy? / Healthline of aphrodisiac scents are sage, lavender, sandalwood, ylang-ylang, and ginseng. But you can choose something of your own.
Sources can be perfumes, candles, or oils. The main thing is not to mix too many scents to avoid a headache.
17. Experiment with positions
Even slightly changing the angle of penetration can achieve unexpected and vivid results. Don’t be lazy to try different positions or experiment with the usual ones by using pillows and sex toys. This is practically an inexhaustible field for discoveries and pleasures.
18. Master tantric sex
Yes, it requires preparation. You need to tune into tantric sex and dedicate a leisurely weekend to it. Therefore, you'll have something to dream about all week long leading up to it and remember afterward.
19. Set prohibitions (and break them)
One proven method to regain passion is to impose a temporary taboo on routine actions. For example, eliminate the missionary position for a month. Or agree that for the next 10 days only kisses are allowed, and moving on to sex is strictly forbidden. The very fact of the ban, as you know, has an exciting effect. Most likely, you won’t last that long. And that’s good!
