1. Feel the closeness
No other position will give you such close contact. In the "Spoon" position, you touch each other from the neck to the tips of your fingers, becoming one whole. This is an important moment. Realize it, feel how your skin literally merges with your partner's skin, — and your sex will become more sensual than ever before.
2. Relax as much as possible
The "Spoons" are so comfortable that they are perfect for lazy sex. The position requires almost no effort, and this love game is easy to play even in a half-asleep state. Sex can become almost a meditation: you focus primarily on your own sensations and do not get distracted by bedroom acrobatics and thoughts about what your partner thinks of your body.
3. Take care of lubrication
Lubrication is an important element of almost any sex scenario. But in the case of the meditative "Spoon" position, it has a special role.
Lubricant will facilitate penetration if you decide to engage in comfortable sensual sex while barely waking up or falling asleep after a stressful day. In such moments, your own lubrication is naturally often insufficient. And it's good to have a tube of lubricant handy.
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4. Don't forget about hands
In the "Spoon" position, the man's hands are literally free. More precisely, one of them — the one on top. Explore with your fingers the vagina and the clitoris of your partner, stroke the stomach, caress the breasts — this will add to the sexual sensations of both participants in the process.
5. Don't be passive
This advice applies to girls. Yes, in this position, the man has a leading role. But the partner should also be active: caress your beloved's genitals with your free hand and with your hips, or bend at the waist and move your thighs, changing the angle of penetration.
6. Try to work only with your hips
Sex in the "Spoon" position involves synchronized movements of the bodies, and there is certainly beauty in that. But try to deviate slightly from the seemingly natural scenario.
Let the man hug the girl tightly so that both bodies become motionless. Provide penetration of the penis into the vagina by moving your hips towards each other.
Such frictions will cause blood to flow to the pelvic organs, therefore the sensations from sex will become much sharper.
7. Play with the variations of the position
In addition to the classic "Spoon" position — woman on her side, man hugging her from behind, pressing closely with his whole body — there are several variations. Try them all.
Reverse spoons
Rotating the girl 180 degrees relative to the classic position will change the angle of penetration of the penis into the vagina. Additionally, in this position, partners will find it easier to caress each other's intimate areas.
Sitting spoons
This variation is particularly interesting for sex in a bathtub or jacuzzi. The man sits, leaning back against the wall and holding onto the edge with his hand. The girl sits on top of the partner. The water reduces body weight, so both participants won't have to strain too much during intimate movements.
Bonus: in this position, it's convenient to diversify the sex game using the showerhead. Let the man massage the partner's pubis and clitoris with a stream of water — this will enhance arousal.
Spoon doggy style
The girl leans her body forward, trying to reach her ankles with her hands. The legs can be bent at the knees, as if taking a lying "Doggy style" position, or kept straight. The man holds the partner's waist with his free hand. This position will provide a more deep penetration.
8. Try anal sex
The "Spoon" position lends itself to it, so sooner or later you will definitely think about this idea. If both agree — take the risk. Just remember the safety rules.
Be sure to wear a condom
Even if you trust each other so much that you do not use one during vaginal sex. Millions of bacteria live in the anal passage, and they should stay there, not move to other places.
Use lubricant for anal sex
The one applied to the condom will not be enough. And the anus does not produce lubrication. To avoid micro-tears and other injuries, do not skimp on lubricant.
Be as careful as possible
Agree on a safe word, move smoothly and carefully. If at any point the girl feels pain, stop immediately and return to more familiar forms of intimate pleasures.
