For sex without penetration, there can be dozens of reasons. Perhaps you’ve run out of condoms. Or your partner is on her period. Or maybe you're both recovering from an infection. Or you recently became parents, and your gynecologist hasn't recommended penetrative sex yet.
In general, it doesn’t matter which option applies to you; it is completely normal. Penetration is far from the only goal of intimate relationships. Here are ten hot types of sex that do not require the insertion of the penis into the vagina.
1. Sex with toys
If you don’t have a vibrator yet, now might be the perfect time to invest in this pleasure. Vibrators come in various forms—you can choose a model for vaginal or anal penetration, and for external use (for example, clitoral stimulation).
Be sure to get a lubricant with your vibrator, preferably a universal one—water-based. This is important to avoid ruining the sex with uncomfortable friction.
2. Frottage
The name of this sex technique comes from the French verb frotter—“to rub,” including against someone. Frottage Frottage —is rubbing the genitals against the partner’s body, regardless of whether they are undressed or dressed. For example, a girl can rub her perineum against her partner’s knee. And a man can press his erect penis against the back, waist, arm, or thigh of his partner.
3. Petting
Petting is sexual cuddling, but without penetration. Petting includes hot tender embraces, seasoned with kisses, erotic massage, and mutual masturbation. It can also be enjoyed while dressed—this is a relevant protective measure for those who are afraid they won’t be able to stop in time.
4. Spanish sex
Also known as intramammary sex. It is performed this way: the man places the penis between the breasts of the partner lying on her back and begins to perform back-and-forth movements. The girl, for her part, squeezes her breasts with her hands to embrace the penis as tightly as possible.
To ensure that Spanish sex is comfortable, apply lubricant or massage oil generously to the breasts in advance.
5. Intrabiial sex
Despite the complex name, this type of intimate contact is quite simple: the penis is squeezed between the girl’s calves, while the man performs back-and-forth movements. Naturally, the calves should be generously lubricated with lubricant.
Intrabiial sex can be done in various positions. For example, the girl lies on her back, bending her legs and tightly squeezing her calves, while the man kneels in front of her. Or a position from behind: the partner bends over the table, lays her body on it, and bends her legs at the knees, bringing her feet close to her buttocks. The partner inserts his penis between her pressed-together calves.
6. Intrafemoral sex
About the same as intrabiial, only instead of calves—female thighs. This type of sex without penetration is more like regular sexual intercourse than others. At least it can be done in familiar positions.
Position “Spoon”
In this position, the man can fondle his partner’s breasts or perineum with his hand to give her pleasure as well.
Position with raised legs
The girl lies on her back and raises her tightly squeezed legs vertically upward. The man kneels in front of her and inserts his penis between her thighs.
Doggy-style
This position allows for movements with a large amplitude, so the man won't have to hold back before orgasm. Additionally, during the process, the partner has the opportunity to fondle the girl’s breasts.
7. Sex between the buttocks
Here it’s straightforward: the man’s penis glides between the woman’s buttocks (which, again, should be well lubricated). During such sexual intercourse, orgasms can be easily achieved not only by the man but also by the woman, as the penis stimulates the perineum and anus.
8. Lingam massage
This is one of the elements of tantric sex, during which the girl touches the penis with her palm or only fingers, caresses it, squeezes, rubs. The goal is to almost bring the man to orgasm but slow down at the last moment and not allow ejaculation. Well, at least not immediately: the approaches should be repeated until the man completely loses his mind from desire. And then the ejaculation and orgasm will be particularly powerful.
Scientists say that with additional light testicle and prostate massages, this type of sex not only gives the man incredible pleasure but also helps improve erection, making it more durable and prolonging the sexual act. The partner has the opportunity to study the body of her beloved person better and feel the man’s reactions to erotic touches more finely.
9. Rimming
Also known as anilingus, that is, stimulation of the anus with the tongue. This part of the body is concentrated with a huge number of nerve endings, so oral caresses of the rectum can bring unimaginably intense sensations. If, of course, you decide to overcome the taboos surrounding this type of sex and please each other.
10. Oral sex
Fellatio and cunnilingus are the classics of the genre. Tongue caresses can bring one to orgasm just as well as regular penetrative sex. Moreover, it is a surefire way to demonstrate to your partner how much you love them. The 7 best positions for oral sex Loverssex has described here—you will surely find among them your most comfortable option.
