Pollutions happen not only to teenagers. And that’s normal.
Thanks to the feminist movement, we can almost discuss previously taboo topics related to the female body. But while activists in different countries scold governments for expensive pads and the lack of hygiene products in public toilets, and female artists paint with menstrual blood, similar “male” topics remain underground.
For example, one of the four Google suggestions for the query “pollutions” relates to Islam. And one of the three short paragraphs on the topic in the Russian “Wikipedia” talks about St. Athanasius the Great’s attitude towards pollutions.
Let’s figure out what pollutions are, and hope that in eight years visitors to women’s forums have also found answers:
What are pollutions
Pollutions refer to daily and nightly uncontrolled ejaculations without stimulation of the genital organs, meaning they are unrelated to sex or masturbation.
Pollutions often lead to orgasm. Moreover, many who have experienced this say that the orgasm from pollution is stronger than from sex or masturbation. It’s as if it was sex between the brain and the genital organs, and they knew what to do.
It is believed that more than 80% of men have experienced pollutions.
Most often, pollutions occur in teenagers and are a sign of a normally developing body that is getting rid of actively produced sperm.
The first pollution occurs about a year after the onset of puberty.
Women also have pollutions
Women’s pollutions usually occur while sleeping, closer to morning. As early as 1953, sexologist Alfred Kinsey establishedSexual Behavior in the Human Female, that 20% of girls experience orgasms due to erotic dreams. After menopause, the number of women experiencing such orgasms increasesSexual Behavior in the Human Female up to 37%.
Unlike men’s, women’s pollutions are not related to the number of sex and orgasms in daily life.
However, women’s pollutions are studied less often, as they are harder to identify. For men, everything is obvious, but the presence of lubrication in women during sleep does not always indicate a pollution.
Moreover, pollutions do not cause concern for women, as they improve well-being and pass unnoticed by others. Even teenage girls do not experience anxiety and shame, unlike their peers. And no one tries to get rid of pollutions.
Why do men experience pollutions
If for teenagers all reasons boil down to hormonal adjustments of the body and cleansing it of excess sperm, then for adult men, the reasons can be as follows:
- Abstinence.
- Accelerated spermatogenesis (the process of sperm formation and maturation).
- Erotic dreams.
- Excitement that found no outlet during the day.
When will pollutions stop
Perhaps never. And that’s normal.
Pollutions can be physiological and pathological. Physiological ones usually become less frequent or completely stop with regular sexual life or with a sufficient number of masturbations for a particular person. But if they return in adult men (up to 80 years old), there is nothing to worry about. The main thing is that they do not cause painful sensations.
If a teenager or adult man experiences pollutions about three times a week (the number is approximate, everything is individual), it is normal.
But, for example, in a seven-year-old child, pollutions are a sign of disturbances. Symptoms of pathological pollutions and reasons to consult a doctor can also includeCAUSES AND TREATMENT METHODS FOR NIGHT POLLUTIONS:
- Erection occurring at night and not subsiding for an abnormally long time.
- Painful night orgasm disrupting sleep due to significant discomfort.
- Pus-like discharge of unusual color and smell, possibly with blood.
- Hyperthermia (overheating) of the testicles.
- Feeling broken, sluggish.
Causes of pathological pollutions can include damage to the central nervous system, diseases of the prostate, seminal ducts, oncological problems with pelvic organs, hemorrhoids, prolonged constipation, and so on.
How to explain pollutions to a child
Why he needs to know this
Sometimes feelings of being broken and stress can also be caused by healthy pollutions. About the yellowish stain on underwear or an orgasm while watching a movie with the whole family, a 13-year-old boy is unlikely to tell his parents.
So it’s necessary to warn the son about pollutions or make it so that the child feels comfortable asking questions about sex, the body, and hygiene in general. Hygiene is very important here. Sperm accumulating in the foreskin or on the glans is a direct path to infections.
A group of doctors and scientists wrote a large text summarizing scientific research on male health and came to the conclusionAdolescent male health:
Boys need to be instilled with confidence that masturbation and pollutions are not signs of perverts and do not lead to physical or mental illnesses.
So it’s necessary to talk to the child about this. Out loud.
As scientists have foundTeenage Habits and Adult Premature Ejaculation unsuccessful first pollutions can spoil the entire sexual life. The feeling of shame for spontaneous erections, the fear of being caught during masturbation will either develop into a total inability to relax or into a real reflex, requiring less than 2 minutes for a man to achieve orgasm.
How to talk to a child if you are desperate and uninhibited
From the age of three, you can talk to a boy about hygiene and give proper names to his genital organs. They can be called in scientific terms; a little one won’t mind. The goal of this conversation is to deprive the penis, scrotum, and testicles of sacredness. Children are often asked to show where a bunny has ears, nose, and belly button. If you pretend that the penis and testicles do not exist, it can lead to an unhealthy attitude towards them. Including an unwillingness to talk about changes occurring with their genitals.
Answer all the questions the child asks. Whatever they may be. Most likely, he is little concerned about the answer itself, but he should understand that he will not be scolded for his curiosity.
Thanks to this, your child will not have complexes, neuroses, problems with erection, and ejaculation.
At the age of 11-12, warn the boy about the changes that will occur in his body. It’s not worth naming specific deadlines so he doesn’t get nervous while waiting: the start can be delayed until 14-15 years.
Tell the boy the truth. When his body begins to change, it will start producing a huge amount of seminal fluid. It will come out when the testicles are full. There is nothing to worry about; everything is fine. Just remember to wash yourself in time.
If pollutions occur during the day at inappropriate times, you will have to explain to him the benefits of masturbation. Explain that this can only be done with clean hands. Agree that the teenager can be alone and be confident that no one will burst in at the most inappropriate moment. Choose what is comfortable for you: from mandatory knocking on the door to a sign on it. Moreover, the sign can mean not only “Do not enter, I am masturbating,” but also the simple desire of a person to be alone or to sleep.
How to talk to a child if you are a supporter of immaculate conception
If you are not ready for such desperate steps or already have an adolescent, then just don’t wait for him to start shutting himself off and snapping at you. Sit him down and tell him about the possibilities of the male body. Neutrally, without linking the information to the child.
You can say something like this: “If the male body produces more seminal fluid than necessary, it expels it outward. Sometimes on time - at night, sometimes in the middle of a class. This is natural and another proof of the thoughtfulness of Mother Nature. The main thing is to wash yourself in time. And if it happens more often during the day, it helps nature with clean hands.”
And yes, this information can be shared with a girl (just as a boy can be told about menstruation). This will help both young men and women not to consider the opposite sex an alien race with which it is impossible to agree.
